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Stuff to do on a date..

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Well it's.. not so much a day but a couple of days with someone I could be with, shes older than me and not sure what kind of stuff she'd like to do, she is older than me, mid 20's so im not sure what i could do, i asked her and she said suprise her but im still a little confused, I did suggest us going for a meal but she has various ED's and said it would be a bad idea,

I came up with so far

Zoo
Cinema
going for a walk (shes bring her dog with her for one of the says)
watching a movie at mine
going to the beach (depends on weather)
pub for light lunch,

what else could I do?

All help is mucho appriciated

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're going on a date with an older girl, like - much older, I personally wouldn't choose the cinema. Zoo wouldn't be high on my list of things to do either, unless she had an obsession with animals. Pub for light lunch would be changed to pub for heaving boozing session. No. Not really. But pub for a drink definately.

    Going for a walk and going on the beach aren't bad ideas, but going for a walk on the beach at night is much better IMHO. ;<
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for that.. she does love animals i know that much and walk on the beach :thumb: great idea thanks,

    Lunch in a quiet pub will go down nicely i think..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *gone*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *gone*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Money isn't a problem...she's worth it,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    r u aware i had an identical thread to this with loads of good replies

    read it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    r u aware i had an identical thread to this with loads of good replies

    read it

    nope i didn't thanks i'll search for it,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can always remember about four years ago an ex took me boating. It was a really hot sunny day and i was thinking oh god spare me the cheesiness but it actually turned out to be quite fun. Well until afterwards where he sprung it on me that i was meeting his mum as well :crazyeyes First date and meeting the parent, next date was meeting the kids.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bowling, then to pub or cheap italian for a bite and a drink.

    Should be cheap if she's anorexic :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit

    Should be cheap if she's anorexic :lol:

    Nooo.... I can't believe you said that :o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Capacity
    If you're going on a date with an older girl, like - much older, I personally wouldn't choose the cinema. Zoo wouldn't be high on my list of things to do either, unless she had an obsession with animals. Pub for light lunch would be changed to pub for heaving boozing session. No. Not really. But pub for a drink definately.

    yar, until her date gets booted out for underage drinking. muchos fun.

    and i'm in my twenties and would love to be taken to the cinema or to the zoo. not by a 16-year-old, but you know, different strokes for different folks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oooo thanks for that kaff,:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Bowling, then to pub or cheap italian for a bite and a drink.

    Should be cheap if she's anorexic :lol:


    IF you wanna go bowling first check what kinda nails she has... long nails and bowling balls don't mix!!

    How about a Museum?? or Exhbition .. so if you can't think of nything to say you can talk about what's you're looking at.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cruel2BKind
    Nooo.... I can't believe you said that :o

    Oh, shush.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Oh, shush.

    No! *Sticks Tongue*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cruel2BKind
    No! *Sticks Tongue*

    What a waste of a good tongue :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    IF you wanna go bowling first check what kinda nails she has... long nails and bowling balls don't mix!!

    How about a Museum?? or Exhbition .. so if you can't think of nything to say you can talk about what's you're looking at.

    i like that idea thanks,

    i think it'll be the zoo one day, day is filled and a walk down the beach at night,

    next day a nice lay in (if she stays) of a walk down the fields around mine and a quiet lunch in a pub somewhere and go to a movie in the afternoon or hang at mine and talk before she travels home.

    I hope she'll enjoy that and shouldn't cost to much:)
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Originally posted by bacon

    LMAO! :lol:
    Oooo thanks for that kaff,

    what exactly were you thanking her for? she told you that she (at the age of 20- something) would not like to go out with a 16 year old.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    i like that idea thanks,

    i think it'll be the zoo one day, day is filled and a walk down the beach at night,

    next day a nice lay in (if she stays) of a walk down the fields around mine and a quiet lunch in a pub somewhere and go to a movie in the afternoon or hang at mine and talk before she travels home.

    I hope she'll enjoy that and shouldn't cost to much:)

    the nearest beach to your house is like a hour away by train.. last i checked you dont drive.

    less you mean the sandbox in your back yard maybe? you could build some sandcastles while your there? just think! how romantic would that be? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ertrael
    the nearest beach to your house is like a hour away by train.. last i checked you dont drive.

    less you mean the sandbox in your back yard maybe? you could build some sandcastles while your there? just think! how romantic would that be? :D


    she drives so it's whatr.. 20-30min..:p

    I was thanking kaff for the fact that she still does stuff at that age so i wasn't far off :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ertrael
    the nearest beach to your house is like a hour away by train

    And even then it's Shithole-on-Sea :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would say Pub as it works for me then again nothing wrong with the cinema just make sure she'll like the film you go see.

    (Oh and the lay in bit works for me too ;))
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    And even then it's Shithole-on-Sea :lol:

    He has a point....take her somewhere GOOD. Like Walton on the Naze or *maybe* Clacton.

    They're nice places *nods* and you can take her on the piers and shit. I always loved Walton Pier lol :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't take her to southend anyway
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    I wouldn't take her to southend anyway

    Good boy :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kaffrin
    yar, until her date gets booted out for underage drinking. muchos fun.

    what i was thinking tbh
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