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sex or time?
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would it be worse if your boy/girlfriend was:
a. sleeping with someone else
or
b. spending time, going out and having fun with someone else?
a. sleeping with someone else
or
b. spending time, going out and having fun with someone else?
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That would be the worst thing that could happen to a relationship. (probably)
at least if your partner is spending a lot of time/having fun with someone else then it could be completely innocent but if theyre sleeping together then its pure backstabbing in my opinion
its a tough one. if i found out my boyfriend was as good as having a relationship with someone else but not sleeping with them, that would hurt.
but then if i found out it was purely sex that'd hurt too.
i dunno which would be worse though
I know from past experience it doesn't take deep emotions to sleep with someone. For many people it does but for some of us there are other underlying problems which compell us to think sex can solve them.
I'd say ta-ta to him. But then embaress myself by asking for him back, three times.
Surely if they're sleeping with someone they are also having fun and spending time with them? :eek2:
no they might not. they could just be meeting up with them for sex
All I can say is one Day Your Prince Will Come -and in the mean time drop this jerk like a hot potato
It's over.
If it was the same sex then i'd have no problems. But if it was the opposite sex then i'd trust my g\f but not the other bloke. Unless I knew him very well.
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i meant romantically. like going on dates, cuddeling, holding hands, spending time layed on each others beds etc
the question is nothing to do with me. it is just a random question
Though sometimes sex can be without feelings and perhaps spending time together is more sort of with feelings if that makes sense?
yup they are the lines i was thinking along too
Been there before both ways, and it sucks.
you have a lot to learn....
*chuckle*
Sorry but that really doesn't work. Usually they end up just as hurt/pissed off as you and the whole relationship goes down the drain.
Why's that ? ...cos he's got better at Spanking??
yep...thats wat i meant in my question when i said spending time with, i probably should have been more clear
if it was sex then we'd have to split up
and if it was the holding hands n shit then we'd have to talk about it, and if she carried on then have to split up.