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Ive noticed that i automatically respect some people and not others but cant pinpoint why
What does a person have to do/be like to earn your respect?
What does a person have to do/be like to earn your respect?
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And downright idiots.
Hmm yeah, I think a lot of people feel that others have to earn their respect, although I feel the exact opposite way. On meeting someone, I'll respect them totally - their views, opinions, actions - until they do something to lose that respect (which sadly happens quite often).
I hate it when I feel I have to prove myself to people to earn their respect, especially when their sole qualification for having the respect of others is their own superiority.
The hardest thing is to regain someone's respect once you've lost it, I think.
Man, I've said "respect" so many times there I feel like I've gone cross-eyed
have to agree, im like that myself. i dont automatically know and label someone the first time i meet them but after a while i decide there label, i.e whether or not theyre a wankrag or not etc
There may be a 'basic decency' which people share. But regarding respect in terms of admiring someone, then that is earned. No one has to like anyone else!
But normally people who can form there own view of things and put it across as opposed to media peers etc: simple thing like dressing different is a start.
People who are motivated and succesful.
people who help others without planning on getting anything in return.
People who I or others can look up to
i think this is the only thing you've ever posted that i agree with.