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Ok, my ex gf was at a gig i was at last night, and i met her bf for the first time, he's everything i hate, but more importantly shes everything she hates too, he isnt affectionate (wont kiss her cos he's a christian) , he'll barely hold hands with her, and i know shes really horny and stuff, and she used to get annoyed if i wasnt getting off with her 95% of the day, and talking to her on the phone telling her much i wish i was for the rest of it. Why would she do this, all her friends say he's really dull, that shes not her type and everything (taking into account shes an aetheist and hates christian morals) is she , even subconsciously, trying to punish me? Or has she totally flipped it
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Just because he doesn't live up to her 'type' and just because he isn't anything like you doesn't mean they can't have a successful relationship.
If you're getting this wound up every time you see her I would suggest you stop seeing her, even at gigs. Just avoid her completely because you're beating yourself up about her all the time!
As Bee says the fact is its over and you have to accept it if its hard to see her with her new bf then dont at least until you dont feel the urge to kick him in the head which was my problem.
Anyways, take it easy and take my wise words as it does get easy from a man who had a 3 1/2 year relationship and sat in his room getting stoned for 3 months convinced he didnt give a shit about his ex. Thats grieving for ya
.matt
Don't see her. Seriously. I know how hard it is, I really really do. Loving someone is really difficult to get over so don't beat yourself up about it.
If she's trying that, then she's punishing herself. Forget it, forget her. She wouldn't just be with someone to annoy you. She's not with you any more. Move on.
this is the best advice anyone can give plus head out with your mates more and soon enough you'll forget who ever you want to forget
Your problem, not hers.
alternatively, two words (ok, and a number) Final Fantasy 7
.matt
Bollocks - you haven't sampled obcession until Championship Manager
It should come with a warning like cigarettes! :eek:
Stop listening to her friends. She is obviously with this bloke for a reason. You may not like it, but unfortunately that is something you need to deal with.
CM killed my sex life....!! I got very jealous of all the time my boyfriend spent with it. Hes been away (without it and me) for nearlly three months and I'm not sure which one he'll have been missing most.
I agree with the others about finding someone new. The above list won't help you get over her at all. Maybe you could ask your mates to set you up with someone...hec, even go to a lap dancing club if it helps.
Ok, that last part probably won't help but it's still always fun
ill tell ya there aint nothin like ramming your elbow into someone else's headguard to relieve some stress
I'm sure you're lovely but a girl just can't compete with CM, Eidos must have made a pact with the devil to make that game!