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Woman wins right to ex-husband's future earnings

The ex-wife of England and Arsenal star Ray Parlour has won her legal fight for maintenance amounting to more than a third of his future income.

Karen Parlour was told by the Court of Appeal her award of £250,000 a year personal maintenance would go up to £406,500 and be reviewed in four years.

She said she was "very relieved at the outcome of the appeal".

Ms Parlour's lawyer had argued she rescued his career and was entitled to more of his £1.2m-a-year income.


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So, is it a fair ruling? Should an ex-partner earn the right to future earnings instead of a fixed adequate maintenance amount? And will men, as they always tend to be, the ones affected worst by such ruling?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its a joke is what i say, she doesnt need that money, if it was needed for indisposable income, hmmm could be argued, but there is a such thing as going down in wealth as well as going up in wealth


    but if its disposable income, why the hell should she be entitled to his FUTURE income as she should get a job like us normal people!!!


    and men always get treated unfairly in the courts

    the 50:50 rule + maintenence in courts for actual things owned is possibly fair if they been together through lots but no more
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    men get screwed in the court room during divorce proceedings. thats why i'll get my future wife to sign a pre nup and have seperate bank accounts :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pre-nuptial agreements have no legal standing in the United Kingdom. They aren't worth the paper they are written on.

    Man and woman split up. Man gets screwed into the ground by woman. That's how the Family Court works in this country.

    However, the tide is turning. A woman completely lost custody of her child after she refused to obey court orders, and it looks like it will be set as a precedent. The trouble is that there is no way of making a woman obey the court orders without jailing her, and they won't do that because of the child's welfare.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what if the fathers actually a decent enough parent to get custody of child




    men get double screwed in court, the women take his money and then claim he dont have financial ability to look after them, wonder where his money went hmmmmmmmmm :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd be royally pissed off if I had to prop up my bitch of an ex wife for the rest of my career.
    Greedy bitch, why doesn't she accept the couple of million quid, the 2 mortgage free houses and then fuck off and get a job.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think divorce is unfair. Why in the days where women are seen as equal in work do men have to split their assets earnt in the marriage even if the women had no bearing in the earning of the money.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How can anyone be entitled to their ex partners future earnings?
    What a joke, fair enough, give his kids good maintenance but she can earn her own f-ing money.
    I don't like Ray Palour but what could this mean for future blokes in the same boat.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If Ray had her knocked off he stands to keep a lot of his money. People have been murdered for less money. Not that I'm saying he would or should, just an observation.

    In the article it says she's releived at the result. Who wouldn't be if they are earning a third of a proffesional footballers salary for doing absolutely nothing?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to clear this up based on what was said on the news.

    Divorce agreements in the UK are based on the idea of a clean break - giving enough money in one go that there is no need for future payments.

    There is rarely enough money or assets so agreements are made for alimony.

    In this case the wife asked for 440,000 every year. The judge decided that because the footy player didn't have enough assests to make a clean break at that point (essentially being the assest himself) he would award the large payment for four years only and she will be required to invest the money for her future.

    It is apparently clear that after the four years she will recieve no alimony - not continue at the same rate or recieve more.

    Apparently this is just one of those completely normal legal situations that the press has decided to focus on because of a stars involvement.

    But to make it clear again - after four years the review will probably massively reduce the amount of money paid, not as some articles imply, increase the amount.

    (obviously he will continue to pay maintence but that's a seperate issue from alimony)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lawyers will be the one's rubbing their hands with glee. They stand to make a pretty penny from not only these American-style "big divorces" but from the increase in pre-nups which are bound to have some sort of legitimacy in the near future.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll give a woman's opinion now...

    I agree with what you've all said! If I was Ray Palour I'd consider retiring and sitting on my backside for the next four years, then taking up a position in coaching/management after that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BumbleBee
    I'll give a woman's opinion now...

    I agree with what you've all said! If I was Ray Palour I'd consider retiring and sitting on my backside for the next four years, then taking up a position in coaching/management after that.

    :yes: or go and play abroad... just to complicate matters for the money grabbing bitch :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BumbleBee
    I'll give a woman's opinion now...

    I agree with what you've all said! If I was Ray Palour I'd consider retiring and sitting on my backside for the next four years, then taking up a position in coaching/management after that.

    The agreement is up for review in four year, so he may have to pay after then too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Who would want to sign Ray Palour though!?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When alimony is taken into account many things are taken into account.

    IF a woman props up her husband through law school, say, then she has invested in his career. therefore if he splits with her she is entitled to reap the rewards of her investment. Especially as, quite often, the woman sacrifices her own career to help her husband's.

    What galls me about this case is that her alimony is not in proportion to her investment.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "I stopped him drinking, I stopped him sliding backwards" e.t.c. e.t.c.

    Bullshit. All the footy players drink loads, most of the bloody country does.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It was Arsene Wenger who helped his career and those of many other's at the Invincible's by demanding sobriety and a healthy diet.
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