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Why does this happen to me?
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I met a man and we went on a date and he said he wanted a relationship with me so we started going out,we've been seeing eachother everyday then on saturday he had to go to London to see his nan who is very ill in hospital, saturday morning was all good,we got on really well and he rang me 3 times and texted me saying he couldn't wait to see me and he kept thinking about me. I haven't slept with him yet. Then yesterday it was his birthday so I rang him and he didn't answer so I left a message on his answering machine saying happy birthday, then I texted him saying "can u ring me later?" then I tried phoning him a bit later but he kept not answering then he turned his phone off so I texted him saying "whats going on, why are you not answering?". No reply..then today I tried to ring him 3 times and he hung up the phone all of the times and I jus texted him saying "I can't believe your treating me like this after what I told you about other men treating me like shit all the time".No reply. He's just totally ignoring me,this sort of thing always happens to me and I'm crying my eyes out coz I thought I'd found a really nice guy, he said he wanted to meet my parents and spend all his time with me etc and now he's doing this. It was all good on saturday and then sunday and monday he's blanking me..Why do men do this? I really don't know where I'm going wrong.
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(BTW sorry for the useless advice, just didnt know wot to say+wanted to cheer u up!
Well did you stop to think that something might have happened and he cant pick up the phone to you. You cant have phones on in hospitals because they do somthing to the mahcines.
So think about it before you get in a tis was.
Give him a break. You've tried. Now it's his turn to give sound.
It could be that his Gran is seriously ill or worse, and now is not the time to be texting or making social phone calls. But if he is in a hospital, then surely his phone should be completely off because of the hospital equipment? It might be a crap time for him but I'm sure if you two are getting really close then it won't be hard for him to send you a quick text explaining the situation and saying he will be in touch when it's all calmed down a bit. I would leave it for him to get in touch with an explantion, and leave him alone in the meantime.
Chin up hun x
And if he was ignoring you then hes not worth your worry :thumb:
Oh for God`s sake. You`re being deliberately obtuse.
Next time, try not to get in a stress about it - there's generally a valid reason. Good luck.
Don't be so fucking stupid. :rolleyes:
Thankyou everyone else.:) *Group hug*:p
Firstly i think you should apologise to this bloke.
Secondly, Mr Wobble, what on earth are you on about - you trying to be some sort of councellor here?
I read that first post, and it was blaringly obvious that the geezer was in hospital and couldnt talk to you for the obvious reason his nan was in trouble.
I mean, for fucks sake, how long did u go without talking to him?! a few days?! I know exactly what id do in this situation if i was him and id run a mile.
Im glad youve got it sorted and your happy but you really do have to look at yourself and realise that was completely selfish.
It doesnt take a rocket scientist to realise that he went to the hospital, then suddenly on the saturday he didnt want to talk to you. Sending texts demanding answers is bang out of order.
Rant over!
Firstly i think you should apologise to this bloke.
Secondly, Mr Wobble, what on earth are you on about - you trying to be some sort of councellor here?
I read that first post, and it was blaringly obvious that the geezer was in hospital and couldnt talk to you for the obvious reason his nan was in trouble.
I mean, for fucks sake, how long did u go without talking to him?! a few days?! I know exactly what id do in this situation if i was him and id run a mile - you may've had bad experiences in the past but give the bloke a chance!!!
Im glad youve got it sorted and your happy but you really do have to look at yourself and realise that was completely selfish.
It doesnt take a rocket scientist to realise that he went to the hospital, then suddenly on the saturday he didnt want to talk to you. Sending texts demanding answers like that is bang out of order.
Rant over!
just a tad insensitive there, you dont seem one bit caring about his gran or his mugging...
me thinks someone is really possesive
all im saying is from what i read, you only cried with relief he was still wnting you, and not over his gran or his mugging
sorry if i got wrong end of stick but you put it rather insensitively
But it seems like your being a tad possessive considering the circumstances and its only the start of the relationship, just gotta watch you don't over crowd him otherwise you will end up losing him.