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How can I wing it?
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Anyone who has seen my pictures here (scroll to the bottom) will know I'm never going to wing it on looks alone, so how can I get above average looking women to notice me? I know people will say to concentrate on my personality but in what way? How can I make myself more appealing through my personality? How do I make it fairly clear I'm interested without coming across as a Gareth Keenan-type??
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with an attitude like that, y would any woman want you to like her? U make it sound like all your interested in is pulling somebody because their good looking
I can't change what I need in a woman, I don't get a say in it. For me there HAS to be a physical attraction. Some people don't require this, others do - but if I gave the impression that I'm only interested in looks (and for the life of me I can't see how I did) then I apologise and it is certainly not the case.
Of course this aint gonna work long term because its fake. To get a girl long term you just gotta be yourself and don't let your insecurities hold you back.
Just watch them wandering hands meeeester
Anyway, when I read what you're saying, with "better than average looking", i read it as " a girl who I consider better looking than me". And that, in my opinion, is probably where you are going wrong. I think that you need to stop thinking of whatever girl you are looking at as a nice looking trophy piece and start to relate on different levels, otherwise you are constantly going in thinking that you're inferior. Which isn't going work.