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hiya, this may sound so stupid but i miss being in love loads. i mean i had this boyfriend and things were fyne we had sex several times but a month after he dumped me.......i was heart broken. well he has moved on and so have i he has a new girlfriend. i really wna get over him but knt atm.......has anyone had the same problem? nd he likes rubbing it in my face that he has a new girl:( i just really wna have the feeling of love agen.........any one else feel like that?
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Dont talk in txt talk btw.
Don't worry about it. A lot of people do it to begin with.
Anyway back on topic, I reckon you should have a gander at these threads. There's not really much that I can say that hasn't been said already in them except that you will fall in love again. Promise
http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=62690
http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=62622
Vinyl Vicky's absolutely right. Don't let it get to you. It's extremely difficult I know, I've been there but if you keep feeling this way feeling jealous you are showing a weakness in yourself and like Vicky said time is the healer and at the same time the fighter.
People will say forget about the person and find someone else, but from my experience you will not forget about that person UNTIL you find someone else, which is why, yes, go out have a laugh, meet new people and given time you will feel tonnes better.
Falling in love seems like a one way door... so hard to come back out of it!
Does anyone think it's possible to get an overall positive? (So that the amount of happyness in the relationship is greater than the pain after it all ends)?