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me, my apology and my pill question
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how can i talk to my mum about going on the pill??
i said that i wanted to because i get mood swings, but she said (being a natropath-type person) that the pill has too many sideffects and there was something natural i could take. but really i don't want to take it for that i want to take it as a contraseptive. i know that they will give it to me as a contraceptive as the age of consent here in spain is 12. and i now feel ready, but i don't want to go ahead with out being on the pill, because i know that condoms are 99.8% (or something like that) effective, but i would still like to have a safe guard. is there any way that i could breach this subject with my mum as she still sees me as a little girl in some ways and an adult in others.
also, i would like to say that, i'm not getting better. i've fooled you all (especialy Rich and Graeme), into thinking i'm getting better, so that there may have been someway of just slipping away so no one noticed, i know this isn't gonna happen because people are gonna notice and raise the alarm whether they like me are not. i'm sorry for lieing to you all... and to you graeme, because i'm a hypocrite by telling you not to cut, when i was doing it myself, i would just much rather help others that have a chance than dwelling on my own problems. if you want to talk to me then PM me and i'll give you my msn addy, but i don't really know where i can go from here...
i'm sorry.
i have become a bottle, not letting out my deepest worries, keeping them inside, making it look like i'm just an attention seeker, so that people might get pissed off enough they will ignor me and forget out me so i can disapper without a trace...
yes, i'm a very sad and bitter person and i have no one to blame. but i don't know what help can do for me now, i may have to just go down in style.
i'm sorry...
i said that i wanted to because i get mood swings, but she said (being a natropath-type person) that the pill has too many sideffects and there was something natural i could take. but really i don't want to take it for that i want to take it as a contraseptive. i know that they will give it to me as a contraceptive as the age of consent here in spain is 12. and i now feel ready, but i don't want to go ahead with out being on the pill, because i know that condoms are 99.8% (or something like that) effective, but i would still like to have a safe guard. is there any way that i could breach this subject with my mum as she still sees me as a little girl in some ways and an adult in others.
also, i would like to say that, i'm not getting better. i've fooled you all (especialy Rich and Graeme), into thinking i'm getting better, so that there may have been someway of just slipping away so no one noticed, i know this isn't gonna happen because people are gonna notice and raise the alarm whether they like me are not. i'm sorry for lieing to you all... and to you graeme, because i'm a hypocrite by telling you not to cut, when i was doing it myself, i would just much rather help others that have a chance than dwelling on my own problems. if you want to talk to me then PM me and i'll give you my msn addy, but i don't really know where i can go from here...
i'm sorry.
i have become a bottle, not letting out my deepest worries, keeping them inside, making it look like i'm just an attention seeker, so that people might get pissed off enough they will ignor me and forget out me so i can disapper without a trace...
yes, i'm a very sad and bitter person and i have no one to blame. but i don't know what help can do for me now, i may have to just go down in style.
i'm sorry...
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:crying:
I dunno what else I can do... all you do is push me away,
I think you are going to have to be honest with your mum. You can only expect to get a helpful answer if you tell her the truth about why you want to take it. if you are telling her it's because you want to control mood swings then she'll respond in answer to your concern about mood swings!
you may want to go ahead and take it with your mums consent but isn't it going to be easier to visit the doctor and get it yourself?
The pill may also not be 100% effective but that's often only because of mistakes made while taking it. If you really want to be sure get your boyfriend to use Condoms as well. Contraceptives should be both your responsibility.
If you are thinking of having sex then hopefully you can also be adult enough to discuss this with your mum?
It'll get better..Trust me..believe me..
Shouting about caring isn't likely to do much. If you want to be expressive, why not take it to PM.
On a different note, I actually find that your attitude comes across pretty agressive.
:yes: that's really all I wanted to say.
Also while you are feeling like this it would probably be unwise to go hopping into bed with someone, all those intense emotions on top of how you are now could be too much to cope with. It is good that you are thinking about contraception but really I think you need to get yourself back on track first.
Take care of you
Susie x
thanks susie,
i am getting help, but it's not helpping much so i think i may have to go for the opption that i did want and get some anti depressants. but i really don't know how much longer i can hold on for.
Luby you talk about holding on but I know your a strong minded girl I've got faith in you and you CAN HOLD On, things will get better I promise you.. yes they may get worse but battle through like you've allways done,
Whatever you do it's your choise and I'm always here for you *hugs*
*HUGZ*
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