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finding someone like me...
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k here's the thing...I've been in relatioships before and they were all ok but nothing more. we were just different people I guess. I really want a relationship that is more than just ok. I want someone I can give all my love to and feel completely comfortable with. Let's just say that my way of thinking and ideas about things are quite different than those of people i hang out with. I just wish i could find someone who won't be conformist and a couch potato and bore me to tears and also someone who is able to have an intelligent conversation and won't be a two timer. I met a lot of guys that seemed perfect for me but they lived too far away. I don't believe long distance relationships and actual relationships. I want to be able to do stuff together and of course make out lol. kind of hard to have a relationship with someone you've never actually met. Should I give this whole long distance thing a try? should I try to find someone like me where I live? how??????? Arg!!! I haven't had a relationship for a while...
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Therefore, I cannot help you
Ilora x
edited due to bad spelling
...exactly!
but for starters you could go and do something you'd never thought of actually doing... e.g. dancing lessons, sky diving, team sports, social voluntary work, board game nights in local pubs or reading a book (just kidding
this way you might meet some new people that probably are completely different from those you hang out with atm!
they still might not be like you but maybe you'll find a proper "match" for you (not a "copy", which imo is quite boring after a while).
good hunting! :cool:
[EDIT] spelling spelling spelling [/EDIT]
I think the reason why it happens like that is because when you are looking you have expectations and are more picky.
But when you don't think about you have more fun with different people and thats how you find it.
at the end of the day, being an individual is what makes you youself, so you wont find somebody who agrees with everything you believe/feel. but there are people out there who are like u describe, but they are so hard to find - especially if you go looking for them!