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he wants to talk :-/
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Weeeell. Hadn't heard from my bf since Sunday before today, so I put some money on his phone today (because I still had his top-up card from a few weeks ago) and txted him; he didn't reply but he dodgied me. I phoned him back, and apparently it was actually his mate who rang me, but he wanted to talk to me so we are meeting up tomorrow (when we also have to go look at the photos we had taken at Olan Mills on Saturday). Whatever he wants to talk about:
Isn't bad, but it isn't good either
He can't tell me something like this on the phone (despite my begging)
Now... last time he wanted a little chat, it turned out he'd been thinking of breaking up with me, but then he changed his mind so we didn't have the talk. The only things I can think of now are that:
a)He wants to break up with me
b)He has cheated on me
c)His ex is pregnant
d)He's moving away
e)He has an STI
But, like... there's only really the first 2 that you wouldn't say on the phone, at least as far as I can see :-/
Does anyone have any opinions on what it could be, or how likely the above options are pleeeeeeeeease? I'm so worried! Our relationship has been going downhill lately, we hardly ever see each other (cos he's lazy :P) but I do love him.
Isn't bad, but it isn't good either
He can't tell me something like this on the phone (despite my begging)
Now... last time he wanted a little chat, it turned out he'd been thinking of breaking up with me, but then he changed his mind so we didn't have the talk. The only things I can think of now are that:
a)He wants to break up with me
b)He has cheated on me
c)His ex is pregnant
d)He's moving away
e)He has an STI
But, like... there's only really the first 2 that you wouldn't say on the phone, at least as far as I can see :-/
Does anyone have any opinions on what it could be, or how likely the above options are pleeeeeeeeease? I'm so worried! Our relationship has been going downhill lately, we hardly ever see each other (cos he's lazy :P) but I do love him.
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He wants a break for a few weeks... he... kind of feels tied down thinking in terms of girlfriend/boyfriend, if you see what I mean. But we're still going to see each other. I'm not sure what he means by 'see', though
Anyway lets put it like this sometimes well mostly i wish we were still together. However there isn't much point if someone isn't happy in the relationship so its probably best this way. Things will turn out probably for the best in a way even though it might not seem like it. If he continues to see you then thats great!
My X wouldn't try a break!