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agressive b/f

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey i have been going out with this boy for about 3 mounths and latley he is becoming very violent. He starts fights with random people and he cuts himself and drinks his own blood. he is also getting moody with me and is puting me under alot of stress which i dont need because im doing my exams.
please if anyone could give me any advice!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    leave him.

    if it's not all sunshine and roses after only 3 months, it never will be.

    get out before you get hurt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with kaffrin, and if u cant do that then try to distance yourself from him, atleast till after your exams
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not often i comment in relationships but i must say this guy sounds like a complete loser who has no respect for no-one not even himself get out before he hurts you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heh... Kay.. take the advice.. Sorry it didn't work out with you two, at the start you two was happy *hugs* remember I'm allways here for you like you have been for me since......i was like..5 :)

    Anyway... lose him...Look after yourself and your best intrests if you want him back after the exams fair enough your be under lot less stress but atm it'll only bring you down. good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: agressive b/f
    Originally posted by sonny
    he cuts himself and drinks his own blood!

    im sorry to say it but dump him. sounds like he's a total flipping wierdo :eek2: you'll be better off without him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He doesn't sound healthy (I mean in a psychological/emotional sense).

    If you fear he might hurt you then end the relationship!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya :D

    yeah defentely leave him, he sounds wierd and phyco .

    But if you do decide to break-up with him best tell him in the least harsh way possible, dont want him doing anything mad do we??

    love kandy x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: agressive b/f
    Originally posted by sonny
    he cuts himself and drinks his own blood. !

    that aint normal. leave him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everyone has said it ~ leave him ~ the best advice youll get.

    You dont need that, you dont need the stress, you dont need the upset.

    What you do need is to concentrate on your exams, you need a fella who wont be moody with you, who will be decent and not be violent towards people.

    Im not saying hes a bad person, he may have issues or problems, theres going to be reason for him behaving like this. But at the end of the day, after a 3 month relationship his problems dont have to be yours too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :yes: I agree with everyone else
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Uh... oh.... controversy time

    Dear sonny

    Let me stand out from the crowd and say something REALLY contreversial

    Have you considered TALKING to him about this?

    I am sure he isn't violent just for the sheer hell of it... There must be a reason why he has suddenly changed. Perhaps he's upset about something... lots of guys don't like to admit this and can get violent. (Blood letting / self harm is also a classic sign of depression).

    Perhaps he's really stressed about exams too, or there's something in his family that he doesn't want to talk about, perhaps?

    If you've been dating him for three months and this is just a recent development, I think it's worth seeing if the two of you can sort this one out. If you can, I can almost guarantee that your relationship will be stronger because of it.

    It is, of course, your call. If you think he could actually turn violent and hurt you, then back off. No guy (or girl for that matter!) is worth putting up with physical abuse.

    ~Dr Smith
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    P.S. On the other, other hand, No guy or girl is worth screwing up your achademics for
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I agree with people here, you could suggest he get some help. Then run.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx

    hey thanx every one

    i talked to him about it and he said some people have been giving him greif. He was resently suspended from our skool but now hes back he seems more relaxed.

    He has started to treat me a bit better to. I thought it was best not to leave him because i htought he needed me through his time of difficulty.

    any way just wana say thanx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought it was best not to leave him because i htought he needed me through his time of difficulty.
    Marry me. The world needs more women like you.;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_smith
    Marry me. The world needs more women like you.;)

    Oi *hits you* thats my kaylee:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oi *hits you* thats my kaylee
    You're too late, I saw her first!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_smith
    You're too late, I saw her first!

    I've known her since I was five :p

    So I think I saw her first :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    Oi *hits you* thats my kaylee:D

    lol how many girls have you claimed ownership to Graeme? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
    lol how many girls have you claimed ownership to Graeme? :p

    Na... I own no one.. except... you....and you... and..... you other there..

    oh..and you..

    :p..

    Na I only got kwiss :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
    lol how many girls have you claimed ownership to Graeme? :p

    Several :p

    And Graeme, she's MY Kaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylee (yes I know I'm sad :p)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *x*l'il miss socks*x*
    Several :p

    yesssss... and one of them several ass's is yours :p
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