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hey i have been going out with this boy for about 3 mounths and latley he is becoming very violent. He starts fights with random people and he cuts himself and drinks his own blood. he is also getting moody with me and is puting me under alot of stress which i dont need because im doing my exams.
please if anyone could give me any advice!
please if anyone could give me any advice!
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if it's not all sunshine and roses after only 3 months, it never will be.
get out before you get hurt.
Anyway... lose him...Look after yourself and your best intrests if you want him back after the exams fair enough your be under lot less stress but atm it'll only bring you down. good luck.
im sorry to say it but dump him. sounds like he's a total flipping wierdo :eek2: you'll be better off without him
If you fear he might hurt you then end the relationship!
yeah defentely leave him, he sounds wierd and phyco .
But if you do decide to break-up with him best tell him in the least harsh way possible, dont want him doing anything mad do we??
love kandy x
that aint normal. leave him.
You dont need that, you dont need the stress, you dont need the upset.
What you do need is to concentrate on your exams, you need a fella who wont be moody with you, who will be decent and not be violent towards people.
Im not saying hes a bad person, he may have issues or problems, theres going to be reason for him behaving like this. But at the end of the day, after a 3 month relationship his problems dont have to be yours too.
Dear sonny
Let me stand out from the crowd and say something REALLY contreversial
Have you considered TALKING to him about this?
I am sure he isn't violent just for the sheer hell of it... There must be a reason why he has suddenly changed. Perhaps he's upset about something... lots of guys don't like to admit this and can get violent. (Blood letting / self harm is also a classic sign of depression).
Perhaps he's really stressed about exams too, or there's something in his family that he doesn't want to talk about, perhaps?
If you've been dating him for three months and this is just a recent development, I think it's worth seeing if the two of you can sort this one out. If you can, I can almost guarantee that your relationship will be stronger because of it.
It is, of course, your call. If you think he could actually turn violent and hurt you, then back off. No guy (or girl for that matter!) is worth putting up with physical abuse.
~Dr Smith
hey thanx every one
i talked to him about it and he said some people have been giving him greif. He was resently suspended from our skool but now hes back he seems more relaxed.
He has started to treat me a bit better to. I thought it was best not to leave him because i htought he needed me through his time of difficulty.
any way just wana say thanx
Oi *hits you* thats my kaylee:D
I've known her since I was five
So I think I saw her first
lol how many girls have you claimed ownership to Graeme?
Na... I own no one.. except... you....and you... and..... you other there..
oh..and you..
Na I only got kwiss
Several
And Graeme, she's MY Kaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylaylee (yes I know I'm sad
yesssss... and one of them several ass's is yours