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Last night he said....
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just a little question at the end of my lil tale lol
i saw my ex last night (we've been split up about 3 weeks) for the first time since i ended it. Things werent too bad and we were chattin like friends then all of a sudden he started having a go at me callin me a slut and a whore etc etc which i kinda let him off with coz i just thought he was still hurt.......then after awhile he asked about my family life, when i told him that i was watchin my dad kill himself he sed he was glad about it, then i ran off. when i got back he stormed off coz someone had told him id slept with another guy since the break up and is now threatening to kill this person, but he started sleepin with someone else the night i split up with him and is now in a relationship with that person.
hes been txting and ringing and apologising to me since, sayin he didnt mean it, but i dont think i could forgive him, do you think im being unreasonable?
Tigerlilly :wave:
i saw my ex last night (we've been split up about 3 weeks) for the first time since i ended it. Things werent too bad and we were chattin like friends then all of a sudden he started having a go at me callin me a slut and a whore etc etc which i kinda let him off with coz i just thought he was still hurt.......then after awhile he asked about my family life, when i told him that i was watchin my dad kill himself he sed he was glad about it, then i ran off. when i got back he stormed off coz someone had told him id slept with another guy since the break up and is now threatening to kill this person, but he started sleepin with someone else the night i split up with him and is now in a relationship with that person.
hes been txting and ringing and apologising to me since, sayin he didnt mean it, but i dont think i could forgive him, do you think im being unreasonable?
Tigerlilly :wave:
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My ex went like that on me (only he hasn't actually apologised, just still trying to keep in touch), and I certainly wouldn't forgive him!
He sounds a twat, but no doubt it would have hurt seeing you, and so wanted to try and hurt you?
No Way. you are definately not being unreasonable. i cant believe he did that too you, he sounds like a dick, who cant accept the fact that uve moved on. ignore him, he isnt worth any of your time :mad:
1) either on something
or
2) THAT moody to being with (by the sounds of it this guy was all over the place)
which is a bloody good idea to keep distance, can't stand people who you dont know how to take one day to the next.
Zella, for example, leaves us in no doubt as to her method of dealing with things.:D