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Sex in the bath

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Ok I tried to have sex in the bath with my bf but the problem is the water dried me out so couldn't happen. Any tips which could help?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's overrated.

    You need a big bath.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always wondered wether it would do that, i was right :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a big bath so not the problem.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it didn't dry me out.. or at least there weren't any problems i knew about so i'm not sure, sorry!

    perhaps you had too much much bubble bath or maybe you could start off out of the water?
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by *lil~miss*
    Ok I tried to have sex in the bath with my bf but the problem is the water dried me out so couldn't happen. Any tips which could help?

    i didnt find that tbh. i just found it extremely uncomfortable and it gave me a crick in the neck. not really worth it imo.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by littlemissy
    it gave me a crick in the neck.
    lol how?!
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Re: Re: Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by lipsy
    lol how?!

    cos i was lying backwards. i used to have a really old fashioned deep bath and we were doing missionary and, well ... you know how you lie in the bath, i was just like that and i was enjoying myself and i hurt my neck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by littlemissy
    cos i was lying backwards. i used to have a really old fashioned deep bath and we were doing missionary and, well ... you know how you lie in the bath, i was just like that and i was enjoying myself and i hurt my neck.
    ooh, i was on top and then doggy when i did it.
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by lipsy
    ooh, i was on top and then doggy when i did it.

    so, would you recommend sex in the bath using those positions?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex in the bath
    Originally posted by littlemissy
    so, would you recommend sex in the bath using those positions?
    well they didn't cause me any problems. i think it is overrated though. but he wanted the whole candle thing and bubbles so it was pretty lovely :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Solidified jiz :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always thought the water would give more lubrication... never mind. I would love sex in the bath; I tried it once but I was too tense to let him in lol... with my new boyfriend I'm too scared of making a mess... if there was enough water in to make it nice, I know he would send it over the side!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dominatrix
    with my new boyfriend I'm too scared of making a mess... if there was enough water in to make it nice, I know he would send it over the side!

    :lol::lol: My b/f did that when we had sex in his bath. the floor got drenched+it took ages to mop it all up, he he. in my experiance, the girl on top is the easiest way, but sometimes the water can wash away the natural juices. try using lube :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wouldn't lub get washed off to with the water?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *lil~miss*
    Wouldn't lub get washed off to with the water?

    hhmm :chin:, yeah maybe, but it may not bcos its thicker and you can add loads, so then you'll still have some left if it gets washed away. im not sure, sorry for the silly response :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *lil~miss*
    Wouldn't lub get washed off to with the water?

    Oil based lube wouldn't necessarily, but then I guess you have to be careful depending on if you are using condoms and such.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a water based lub (I think) what does that mean? (sorry I must sound dead thick)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *lil~miss*
    I have a water based lub (I think) what does that mean? (sorry I must sound dead thick)
    it just means it's safe to use with condoms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh right thanks :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For me that's never had sex in the bath...

    Do you not find it awkward and get trapped air which leads to unwanted bubbles if you know what I mean? :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to have sex have it in a pool
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by babe813
    If you want to have sex have it in a pool
    Or the sea, not that i've tried it, but people I know want to try it.
    Me and my ex were in the bath, we didn't try to have sex in there because the bath isn't that big and when I thought about it it just sounded painful, for instance if she was on top it would have hurt her knees and if I was there might not have been enough room...hmm.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Silverberg
    Or the sea, not that i've tried it, but people I know want to try it.

    :no: Don`t bother. It`s TOO cold, even in August.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tried it but my bath is tiny. It would be great in a big Jacuzzi with lots of bubbles and champers. Like in that film 'Species'
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I find the bath is good for foreplay for him. Whoever talked about bubbles (sorry, read it a long time ago), you're quite right. And I dunno about anyone else, but that hurts me. And if you had unwanted water, when you were getting out the bath and stood up, it'd look like you were peeing yourself.....attractive!!

    Nomi
    XxxXxxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dantheman
    I tried it but my bath is tiny. It would be great in a big Jacuzzi with lots of bubbles and champers. Like in that film 'Species'
    i want one like in scarface. i find jacuzzis very sexy..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how about take a bath together then do it on the floor or over the toilet/sink while ur all wet+slippery

    avoids the limitations of the bathtub
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know this is a thread about having sex in a bath but I have to recommend sex in the shower cubicle. Him having you up against the wall. Well hey it's alot more hygenic than the bath and saves you from having to crawl out of bed and jump into the shower to refresh yourself coz your both already in the shower. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    or over the toilet

    is it just me that finds the prospect of having sex over a toilet totally :yuck:?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had sex on a toilet.....well when i first lost 'it' i was in the shower....we sort of fell out the shower and landed on the loo and carried on for a bit before hitting the floor.
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