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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
well I know all the virginity threads have been done to death, but I was just reading thru them and wondered........if/when u bleed when u lose ur virginity, how much blood is there?

Its just that the guy I'm seeing is terrified of blood.....so it could b a problem :rolleyes:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have slept with 2 virgins and i never noticed any blood personally, maybe they did afterwards or something but i never saw any.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldnt worry about it....if it happens at all its not much and its more than likeley going to be more apparent afterwards......tho saying all that i am a bloke so no personal experience, but it has happend to a couple of girls ive been with......dont worry, u wont gush . hehe. just go steady basically.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i didnt bleed at all. dont worry about it, if it happens it happens but you need to relax!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i did, about the first day of a period spread over two days, and there was blood on the sheets and his *cough* :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry about it but make sure you discuss it before hand. I didn't bleed at all but make sure ur b/f knows what could happen. I'm sure the blood wont be what he'll be thinking about when ur doing it! If he wears a condom, he can quickly whip it off if there is blood and the rest is left 2 u, have fun ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You may nt bleed at all, say if you use tampons or use errr...objects when you masterbate them you would have broken your hymen already (probably.... i dnt know cos i havent looked... not that i want to, no offence im sure its lovely i just dont want to see, ok im going to shut up now before my feet start chokeing me)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Like has been said already, you may not even bleed, AKAIK it's the breaking of the Hyman that causes bleeding, however by the time most females reach the age of 16 the hyman has already dissapeared(it breaks down naturally) also as to the level of bleeding i don't think you'd be looking at anything more that a slight trickle, no worse than say if you grazed your hand, at any rate i don't think there'd be torents of the stuff, It's a tought one to broach but you could sit him down and talk with him let him know theres a possibity, however this might just freak him out if he's terrified of blood or your could just not say anything and hope for the best.

    if it helps i had sex with a G/F just after her period and there was some residual bleeding (quite a bit actually) just jump in the shower and it soon washes off
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i could happen, it could not, you'll never know until you try, or is there something else your worried about?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Stinger
    however by the time most females reach the age of 16 the hyman has already dissapeared(it breaks down naturally)

    Bollox
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha, yup zella, totally agree, thats bollocks, lol. Thanx for all ur replies people! Char_Baby - yeah, I think I'm just a lil nervous bout the whole thing, and its just contributed to my worries about how he'll react. Well, after tomorrow I'll know :naughty:....but thanx for all ur help everyone!xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry true actually. hymen is lost in most girls by about 12, when puberty starts. periods and all that. also physicall activity like running etc. wil break it. any blood loss is likely to be small and just small spotting not actually flowing.

    apart that is unless you are not turned on enough or he has a big penis or you have a small vagina. all will cause some small bleeding
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sleepless
    sorry true actually. hymen is lost in most girls by about 12, when puberty starts. periods and all that. also physicall activity like running etc. wil break it.
    Lies!
    Is that why LOADS of women still have it when they have sex?
    And if they wait till they are like 30 they will still have it, if they dont use tampons?
    It wont just fade away. Dont talk such rubbish.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wont even bother going into detail just go look it up in a medical dictionary:confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont have one, and since you are soooooooooo knowlegable about this why dont you educate my tiny lil mind:yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you really want to learn.........here goes

    The hymen is a very small membrane (thin piece of tissue) that is stretched over the opening of the vagina. it usually perforates spontaneously before puberty even but sometimes if the initial opening is only small it may fully tear on forst sexual intercourse, first tampon etc.

    What you also have to remember is the anatomy of the female reproductive organ. Roughly the uterus is the furthest inside the body. this then leads down to the vagina and at the vaginal opening is the hymen. It is not only intercourse that can tear the hymen as anything entering the vagina can. Fingers, toys etc are just as likely.

    And remember a "period" is when the body sheds the uterus lining which remembering the anatomy is when the uterus lining is discharged out of the body through the vagina and therefore the vagina opening.

    Yes some women in 30's still have a hymen but that can be due to the hymen being held on stronger and also that as everyone is different so are their body layous and some hymens may not be connected properly or even only partially conected or partially covering the vagina openeing. But an intact hymen after puberty is very rare.

    Sorry to sound arsey previously - just not been my day today.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sleepless
    physicall activity like running etc.

    yeah okay hun i agree with that bit, that can sometimes cause it 2 break, also tampons. But as for the techicalites of the whole thing (like why some of us bleed in the first place) i haven't a clue so i can't comment. Doubt its got much 2 do with sizes though, that would just stretch you i think - like a baby does when coming out! Tell us how it goes anyway hunni xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to answer that bit vaginas come in all differnet sizes and shapes and althought they are stretchy only to a point. a small vagina will only stretch so much compared to large vagina. also vagina size has nothing to do with how much sex you have, how often when you firet had it. nothing at all. the size is predetermined. the stretchyness is influenced by sex regularity etc. but only too its maximum elasticity.

    hence it is true that only so big is big enough for some people.

    not everyone could take ron jeremys penis!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you, I feel much more well informed now. Although you have proved my point that the hymen does not just fade away:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think we all have the same point actually...just expressing it differently creating confusion, oh well!:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sleepless
    not everyone could take ron jeremys penis!!!

    erm...?? :confused: is it just me who is confused as hell by this??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear
    erm...?? :confused: is it just me who is confused as hell by this??

    :yes: :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear
    erm...?? :confused: is it just me who is confused as hell by this??

    ron jeremy has a HUGE penis! He is a famous porn star. A big hairy minger but very well indowed
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella
    ron jeremy has a HUGE penis! He is a famous porn star. A big hairy minger but very well indowed

    ohhhh, ok :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Groovaybaby*
    he can kiss the tip of it

    :eek2: seriously!?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive never heard of him either!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Groovaybaby*
    So i heard im not 100% positive

    If your right, that is propa mad! :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea he can ive seen him do it!
    9"!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rj.jpg

    ^^^^
    The Ron man!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sleepless
    sorry true actually. hymen is lost in most girls by about 12, when puberty starts. periods and all that. also physicall activity like running etc. wil break it. any blood loss is likely to be small and just small spotting not actually flowing.
    nuh thats bs :P I didn't have one when i had sex, although i have no idea what it looks or feels like... i guess i must have destroyed it when i was a bit younger. I have never heard of anyone bleeding on their first time so i'm guessing it doesn't happen often. If you can fit a few of your own fingers in there then you probably won't bleed :P good luck
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