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rite or wrong way?
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hi im 15 and im kinda unexperienced wen it comes to guys....not as in snoggin but like n e thing else....i meen if i was gunna do summit i wood b afraid i had dun it rong or was really crap n that he wood spread rumours...like is there a rite or rong way to toss sum 1 off or woteva?? 
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Bopz
If you toss off a guy, he's not going to say you're crap. But lets just go on the idea that he does. Technically, the fate of his high school penis rests in your hands [excuse the amazingly witty pun
At your age I'd imagine that they'd be too proud to spread rumours (thats unless your doing it to 18 year olds :eek2:) so I wouldn't worry at all.
Or...
Hi, I'm 15 and I'm kind of inexperienced when it comes to guys; not as in snogging but anything else; I mean if I was going to do something I would be afraid I had done it wrong or was really crap and that he would spread rumours. Is there a right or wrong way to toss someone off or anything?
Anyway. I think if you were doing this with the right guy he wouldn't even think of spreading rumours, or have cause to.
do you want spam with that?
I think its natural at this age to worry about these things but completely silly. You should worry about loving yourself because liking yourself is more important that other people liking you...(So long as you are a decent person)
Or put another way, pathetic. Got too much time on your hands? Get a job or build a fort for homeless people or something.
And, yes, like others have said, you've got the upperhand even if he does make rumours, 'cos you can just come back with a particularily vicious rumour and ruin his sex life for years to come.
Why is it pathetic...you can't start a revolution if people don't understand you!!
Thes kids today just don't seem to understand the importance of Spelling, Grammar and communication and so those of us who do see it as our duty to force them to!!
Txtin people is not a life.........
Bopz
P.S. Why not just get free txt's then you can use all big words and correct spellings and everyones happy.
Some people have trouble understanding speech like that on the internet, I was putting it so people could understand her question if they had any problems understanding the original version. Plus I thought it would be fun
And I've got a job cheers, in customer service where I have to serve snotty shits like you, a social life, I go to college, I do placements where I work with people with learning difficulties and complex needs, and
if yu read to much about it you'll be more nervous about it-
Its like your first kiss, once you start enjoying it it all comes naturally. Your young too- so slow down and dont go just jumping into all this stuff with peer and media pressure.
We all learned neraly everthiny ourselves anyway!
Doc