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ex's housemate
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to cut a long story short, she fucked me about a bit, dumped me, decided to stay 'friends' on her terms (ie. i was used for sex and companionship when she wanted it and blanked when she didn't) so anyway we're on speaking terms but i have no intention of being her "friend" after the way i've been treated. so some time has passed and we're both moving on.
the problem is.. i'm really interested in one of her housemates and her housemate is interested in me. she's a lovely girl and we get on well, while i was going out with the other girl (the psycho one) i kind of knew i'd gone for the wrong one. i know there's a line you don't cross but i don't think it's gonna upset my ex that much to be frank - she couldn't give a toss about me. only thing is it i don't think it would impress any of the other girls that they share a house with...
should i go for it?
the problem is.. i'm really interested in one of her housemates and her housemate is interested in me. she's a lovely girl and we get on well, while i was going out with the other girl (the psycho one) i kind of knew i'd gone for the wrong one. i know there's a line you don't cross but i don't think it's gonna upset my ex that much to be frank - she couldn't give a toss about me. only thing is it i don't think it would impress any of the other girls that they share a house with...
should i go for it?
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Tom
i could be really evil and post up the transcripts
She used you, now you use her contacts to make you happy
Jez
basically she decided it was over as she "didn't think we had a future together". so i went through about a month of being told she still loved me but had no intention of going out with me. eventually i had a go at her for drunkenly intervening everytime she saw another girl go near me, using me for sex/cuddles etc and we got back together. it lasted 5 days we had a row, she pulled out this "no future together" bollocks again so we had some rather frantic break-up sex she made me a bacon sandwich and i walked out - she knew we couldn't be friends or speak again.
so i bump into her and she decides she wants to be mates again- you know, going out for dinner, walks, holding hands, occasionally sleeping together, "best friends" but not going out. she never called me only sent me pointless txts. apart from when she got drunk and felt horny/lonely and decided to tell me how much she still loved me. eventually i got sick of being used like this and started being a complete c**t to her on MSN. this is the aftermath...
I can't believe i just did that. :rolleyes:
oh well, revenge is horrible but sweet :mad:
If you do go with the other girl, be careful. I'm not saying it's not a good idea but don't let either of them think that you're just doing it to get back at your ex.
I was egged on
Wont happen again, promise.