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Coming out
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I know it must seem like I have been there, done that - and on one level I have - but coming out unfortunately doesn't end the first time you say "I've got something to tell you..."
I'm worried because I told Mum that I'm gay (she asked), but Dad and my younger sister don't (officially) know. Must I tell them? It's over a year since I told Mum and the longer I leave it, the harder it gets.... help!
Picc.
xxx
I'm worried because I told Mum that I'm gay (she asked), but Dad and my younger sister don't (officially) know. Must I tell them? It's over a year since I told Mum and the longer I leave it, the harder it gets.... help!
Picc.
xxx
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but then im not in ur position so maybe its not quite that easy
good luck neway
xx
I'm not sure what to tell you about how to go about telling your dad and sister, but I know how you feel when it comes to wanting to come out because, well, I'm not a lesbian/gay, but I am bisexual and I know that it was hard for me to come out to the very few people, who I could trust to tell, but, in some ways, I'm glad that I have told them because it's just not all on me and I'm not totally alone in going through this. I have those few friends/people who care about me, enough, that it doesn't bother them at all.
I just wish that I was just able to give you some advice on how to hanle/deal with/go about coming out and such with your sexaulity, but I just wish you the best in whatever you may or may not choose to do in the future.
Coming out is about you, not about other people.
i agree, it is mighty unfair that society makes gay people feel like they have to announce their sexuality, but straight people dont. gud luck piccolo (btw ur name...from dragonball z/gt?)
i told my mum i was bi 5 years ago.
not told my dad. not going to.
lol