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The last night of boards

NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

So, the Mix is going to be closing boards at nights tomorrow, which means that there's going to be no more night time support or community talks at night, which i know is gonna be a big blow to a lot of people. And i know a lot of people are going to be leaving with these changes that come into effect, and for some, it might be there last few days here. It'll also be the last night time on boards tonight.

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When i first made the venting threads before they got switched into a weekly thread, i used to be on it at nights mostly, along with a few other users, and we ended up getting nicknamed the midnight crew.

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And so i thought, let's have one final last hurrah, just for tonight, before boards closes at night time's for good. So whatever you want to talk about for tonight, feel free to vent, or chat about whatever stuff you want 😂

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  • thetieflingthetiefling Posts: 15 Settling in
    edited March 31

    i've only just joined the forums but it feels like such a shame that a lot of big things like the boards closing at night & posts needing approval before they're viewable are coming in to place. i understand that it's because themix have certain obligations but. yeah it's a shame

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    Signing on for midnight crew duty, i guess for one last time.

    Back in 2020 during covid when the general chit chat thread was new, we used to chat on it till silly o’clock at night. Most of those users have long since aged out or moved on, but we used to call these nights boards parties. Some incredible memories, and its safe to say my post count would be nowhere near what it is without those boards parties.

    You’re not wrong @thetiefling it truly is a real shame. I’ve been here for 10 years and there have been a lot of changes in that time, but this is the biggest yet. I find it a shame that you won’t really get to experience the things myself and @Nathan have mentioned (unless you come to chat, of course)

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @independent_ it really is a shame, cause overnight times are the only time some people are able to spend time here. Still, we might as well make the most of the time we've got left.

  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    Random question. Why is Greenland called Greenland when it's mostly ice, and why is Iceland called Iceland when it's mostly green?

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    @Nathan for sure, so many people can’t access the boards during the day for whatever reason, and may not be able to come to chats due to other things going on in their lives. Lots of people only get time to sit down even at this time of night.

    I don’t know the answer to that question but I’m loving the questions really makes you think

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @independent_ It's really sad about how many are going to lose support because of this.

    I have zero clue to that question either 😂. Okay, next random question…

    why are buffalo wings made of chicken and not buffalo?

  • thetieflingthetiefling Posts: 15 Settling in

    this is one of my worries. i understand that there are a lot of overnight services for people with mental health struggles but there's a preestablished community & support system here that's being ripped away. not everybody is going to be able to just move over to an alternative service. not everybody feels comfortable to, and most other services do not have the same kind've community & culture as this one. real shame

  • eylaheylah Posts: 10,939 An Original Mixlorian

    can say i was apart of the nighttime crew. 🫡

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    @Nathan i’ll end up down a rabbit hole bc I’ve never even considered that last question loool but now i want to know

    @thetiefling i fully agree, it is so hard to move elsewhere. Every community is slightly different, and when you’re used to one it’s really hard to just adapt to somewhere else because you’re right, everywhere has slightly different guidelines and a different culture. And I think people feel comfortable here because they know the staff as well and if there’s ever a problem, you pretty much know you won’t ever be told off for raising it as an issue, whereas i have experienced this on other places over the years.

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,825 Boards Guru

    I can’t believe this is the last night 🥲

  • eylaheylah Posts: 10,939 An Original Mixlorian

    how is everyone?

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Ech0Ech0 Community Connector Posts: 256 The Mix Regular
    edited March 31

    hello , nice to join you all for the last night here, it’s really sad this won’t be able to happen again.

    how is everyone?

    I’m managing thank you @eylah

    How are you and everyone else?

  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @eylah you're always a part of the nighttime crew! Sorry for the slow reply, i had to pop out for a short while

  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru
  • eylaheylah Posts: 10,939 An Original Mixlorian
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Ech0Ech0 Community Connector Posts: 256 The Mix Regular

    @Nathan Greenland got its name from the Viking Erik the Red, who wanted to attract settlers by giving it a pleasant-sounding name (though I think southern areas do turn more green in warmer periods). Iceland was named more literally by early Norse explorers who saw icy fjords and harsh conditions when they arrived, so the name reflected what they experienced at the time.

    And buffalo wings are named after Buffalo, New York where they were created in the mid 1960s.

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    @AnonymousToe I can’t quite believe it either honestly. What do we night owls (insomniacs, but night owls is cooler) do now?

    @eylah @Ech0 i’m ok thank you, i nearly forgot to do my wordle today, my brain just isn’t working properly but hopefully a good sleep will do me some good. How are you?

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @eylah hello my favourite twat. I'm doing fine thanks. How are you tonight? (dammit, i hate spam block!)

  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @independent_ there's so many crazy things and rabbit holes it's insane 😂

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    Echo is providing all the real answers, I love it!!

    Meanwhile in chat I just google all the random shit that gets asked and copy/paste whatever comes up 🤣

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    Okay, random question. One of them has to go. Pineapple on pizza or fried mars bars.

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    Easy one for me @Nathan as a Scot, with infinite respect for the deep fried mars bar, it has to be pineapple on pizza. I disagree with that on a moral level 🤣

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    Okay, how about a harder one now. A twister wrap from KFC or a Mcspicy 😂

  • eylaheylah Posts: 10,939 An Original Mixlorian
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @eylah that's good to hear. I still can't believe that this time tomorrow, boards will be closed.

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    Omg that is harder! I don’t think i could ever say goodbye to my McSpicy forever though, so sadly has to be the wrap. No disrespect to KFC but i had to pick one lol.

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,460 Boards Guru

    @independent_ okay, nightmare level question now. The Mcspicy, or a deep fried mars bar 😂

  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,206 An Original Mixlorian

    If the boards closure had been announced tomorrow we would have seriously had to ask if it was an April fool!

    My sister once painted our bar of soap in the shower with clear nail varnish for April fools day so it wouldn’t work 🤣 has anyone ever had any good April fools pranks played on them?

    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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