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    RachaelRachael Posts: 17 Settling in
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Wish adulting wasn't so difficult

    What’s up? :heart:

    Found a apartment I really like but it's figuring out the financial side

    I'm in a similar situation GreenTea! Trying to find someone to live with as it's most financially viable but no one's replying to my messages so probably going to get somewhere on my own but it's so expensive!
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Wish adulting wasn't so difficult

    What’s up? :heart:

    Found a apartment I really like but it's figuring out the financial side

    Ah, could you get some advice from your bank maybe?

    It's not that. It's bills and stuff
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Rachael wrote: »
    Apparently I'm working out how the boards work! Finally found the quote button haha

    Ah yay, it’s so great to have you on the boards. This is such a lovely kind-hearted community :heart:

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Wish adulting wasn't so difficult

    What’s up? :heart:

    Found a apartment I really like but it's figuring out the financial side

    Ah, could you get some advice from your bank maybe?

    It's not that. It's bills and stuff

    Ahh yeah, Are you looking to live alone or have somebody to split the bills with
                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    RachaelRachael Posts: 17 Settling in
    Dancer wrote: »
    Rachael wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Rachael wrote: »
    @Dancer have you been on the group chats there? I'm not on much at the moment but I'd be happy to listen and see if I can help or understand, or join chat tomorrow and be someone you know cared if you wanted to try and get support from people ❤️

    Yes I have been on the group chats there but it feels difficult to open up.

    Did you try to talk and not get heard or did you feel unable to talk? It can be difficult but the community there is so supportive, you can talk about anything and people will be there for you

    I just felt unable to talk about what was going on as I struggle to trust people that I don't know very well. Thank you though.

    I get that. Of course you don't have to but if it were me I'd just go ahead and say, I was nervous at first but I did and then everyone was so supportive and I've gotten to know them better because I was able to open up. I completely understand if that would be too hard though, it takes courage to talk to people ❤️
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Hi peeps
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    edited April 2021
    Hi
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Hey @Millie2787

    How’s it going?
                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Wish adulting wasn't so difficult

    What’s up? :heart:

    Found a apartment I really like but it's figuring out the financial side

    Ah, could you get some advice from your bank maybe?

    It's not that. It's bills and stuff

    Ahh yeah, Are you looking to live alone or have somebody to split the bills with

    Alone
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    I’ve reached one month free of self harm
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    RachaelRachael Posts: 17 Settling in
    Shaunie wrote: »
    I’ve reached one month free of self harm

    Yay Shaunie!
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Shaunie welll done ! I’m on 6 days now free from Self harm and B/P

    @Stephanie ill be glad when I’m home from work . It’s frustrating at the moment
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Wish adulting wasn't so difficult

    What’s up? :heart:

    Found a apartment I really like but it's figuring out the financial side

    Ah, could you get some advice from your bank maybe?

    It's not that. It's bills and stuff

    Ahh yeah, Are you looking to live alone or have somebody to split the bills with

    Alone

    Hope you get it sorted. :heart:

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Shaunie wrote: »
    I’ve reached one month free of self harm

    Yay this is amazing :heart:

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Millie2787 wrote: »
    Shaunie welll done ! I’m on 6 days now free from Self harm and B/P

    @Stephanie ill be glad when I’m home from work . It’s frustrating at the moment

    Ah sorry to hear that, you not enjoying work?

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Sending so many hugs to all of you :heart:

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    RachaelRachael Posts: 17 Settling in
    Think I'm gonna head off, all my shoes have been left in a pile in the hall as mum sorted the cupboard, so going to sort them before I get into even more trouble than I am already. Take care all ❤️
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Sorry if I seem ungrateful.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

    It is also supposed to be on Freeview but it won't work.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

    It is also supposed to be on Freeview but it won't work.

    Oh right, not sure. Could you try and get it online

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

    It is also supposed to be on Freeview but it won't work.

    Oh right, not sure. Could you try and get it online

    My school have a video library that students and stuff can access online so there is a different version of the film on there. I can't send you the link though. Sorry. Maybe there is one on YouTube or Netflix.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    There is also other stuff bothering me but it is just overwhelming and confusing.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Look at what I just earnt! r1chl51jr3yf.jpg
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

    It is also supposed to be on Freeview but it won't work.

    Oh right, not sure. Could you try and get it online

    My school have a video library that students and stuff can access online so there is a different version of the film on there. I can't send you the link though. Sorry. Maybe there is one on YouTube or Netflix.

    Ah don’t worry I don’t wanna watch it, it’s not really my thing. I just meant could you maybe try watch it online.

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Dancer wrote: »
    Look at what I just earnt! r1chl51jr3yf.jpg

    Yyyyyaaayyy

                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Stephanie wrote: »
    Dancer wrote: »
    Who else is watching Romeo and Juliet? It is on channel 11 (Sky Arts) but I can't get it to work on the TV so going to have to just watch the version that my school have.

    Ah. It watching. I don’t have sky

    It is also supposed to be on Freeview but it won't work.

    Oh right, not sure. Could you try and get it online

    My school have a video library that students and stuff can access online so there is a different version of the film on there. I can't send you the link though. Sorry. Maybe there is one on YouTube or Netflix.

    Ah don’t worry I don’t wanna watch it, it’s not really my thing. I just meant could you maybe try watch it online.

    Yes I could but it would be a different version. I want to wait until I have finished reading the play anyway.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    I’m heading off for the night now, as I am in work in the morning and quite tired.

    Stay safe and take good care :heart:
                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,785 Master Poster
    Stephanie wrote: »
    I’m heading off for the night now, as I am in work in the morning and quite tired.

    Stay safe and take good care :heart:

    Goodnight. Have a great sleep.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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