New Year-I ruined it 😰

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I ruined New Year for my family...It's all my fault 😰💔😡 xx

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Hi Hannah,

Sending you big *hug* s

If it helps I'm here to listen

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The New year has only just begun Hannah! What's happened?

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Here if you wanna chat, sending you *hug*s

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Hi Hannah, just wanted to see how you are doing?

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Hi All,

Thank you for taking the time to reply to my stupid post I ruined NYE for my family as I was in such a foul mood and we were at a party and all ended up leaving it early then there were arguments after arguments. As you all know, NYE was a few days ago now but I still feel really bad and guilty about it.

I wanted to post on TS as I was in desperate need of someone to talk to but my internet data is running really low on phone so only able to use it on my laptop or on my phone when connected to Wi-Fi.

:crying:XX

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Hey again Hannah,

Thanks for taking the time to get back to us, this post was not stupid at all, sometimes we do need to just take a step into a place where we can just rant, and let it all out. It's an awful lot better than keeping it all locked in. Would you like to talk a bit more about what happened at during new years eve? - How was the party? The start of a new year can be really frightening sometimes, I know it's like to some people, just 'another day' but if you've had a rough year, it can mean a lot. But it's not something you have to go through alone. Would you like to talk a bit more about the arguments that happened?

It might help to just release it a bit, and get views from others about it? - Were here for you Hannah - Glad you managed to get access to the internet!

Best wishes,
WhispersOfTheHeart

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I was arguing a lot with them all and shouting/screaming around-I hadn't even had a drink or anything like that either. NY means absolutely nothing to me at all.

A rough year makes the NY even worse for me....

Hannah x

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HannahBannanna wrote: »

I was arguing a lot with them all and shouting/screaming around-I hadn't even had a drink or anything like that either. NY means absolutely nothing to me at all.

A rough year makes the NY even worse for me....

Hannah x

Sending big *hug* s

Could having a chat with them be helpful? I am just wondering if they are aware of your struggles, perhaps they'd be more empathetic if you explain that to them.

Best Wishes x

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HannahBannanna wrote: »

I was arguing a lot with them all and shouting/screaming around-I hadn't even had a drink or anything like that either. NY means absolutely nothing to me at all.

A rough year makes the NY even worse for me....

Hannah x

New year's eve doesn't mean a lot to me neither, that's why I chose to work during it without actually giving it a care in the world. However, I get where you're coming from about a rough year making it a lot more difficult. Often when we cling on to the past, while those around us are enjoying themselves we do just need a way to let it out, even if it means lashing out at times.

Are there any positives you are looking forward to this year? For me it has to be my holiday during the summer, all booked, and I'm ready to go! - Another one is watching our little one grow up and meeting wonderful people along the journey. If we end up majorly focussed on all the negatives of 2015, rather than the positives, it can be difficult to jump to the assumption that things will get better in 2016. How about making a bucket list for 2016? Or even going through all the positive aspects of 2015? Even if it's really small things, like you met someone wonderful? Joined TS? Etc.

Were here for you, Hannah.
Best wishes,
WhispersOfTheHeart

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apandav wrote: »

Sending big *hug* s

Could having a chat with them be helpful? I am just wondering if they are aware of your struggles, perhaps they'd be more empathetic if you explain that to them.

Best Wishes x

Nope I have tried that countless times and that never works out. I can't tell them anything and I can't let them find out either. Though legally they do not have to, especially since I am 18

Hannah x

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WhispersOfTheHeart wrote: »

New year's eve doesn't mean a lot to me neither, that's why I chose to work during it without actually giving it a care in the world. However, I get where you're coming from about a rough year making it a lot more difficult. Often when we cling on to the past, while those around us are enjoying themselves we do just need a way to let it out, even if it means lashing out at times.

Are there any positives you are looking forward to this year? For me it has to be my holiday during the summer, all booked, and I'm ready to go! - Another one is watching our little one grow up and meeting wonderful people along the journey. If we end up majorly focussed on all the negatives of 2015, rather than the positives, it can be difficult to jump to the assumption that things will get better in 2016. How about making a bucket list for 2016? Or even going through all the positive aspects of 2015? Even if it's really small things, like you met someone wonderful? Joined TS? Etc.

Were here for you, Hannah.
Best wishes,
WhispersOfTheHeart

Heya,

I guess it means something different to several people, or in our case, doesn't mean anything in different ways for some people. So, where were you working as in what job on New Year's Eve then? It sounds as though keeping busy and working on the evening really did help you.

I don't really know any positives or good things which I am looking forward to this year Erm...?? :S

Thank you Hun,

How are you?

Hannah x*hug*