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Re: I need a hug (v2.0) 💚
Skived work, spent 100 quid have no money and just crying now
Re: Crochet
In the middle of trying to make a little teddy, its not amazing but i think its okay as a first time trying to make one, especially without using a pattern and winging it. I was gonna try do a full purple one but im almost out of purple yarn so decided to try do a mix of 2 colours; i think it looks kinda cute 🤣 just gotta do the head
Chloe234
5
Re: I need a hug (v2.0) 💚
Having a really low day so got dad to drop me off in town and I just went on a long walk along the beach and cliffs in the rain. Now sat in Costa crocheting waiting to see a friend at 3. Didn't wanna sit In the house all day
Chloe234
6
Boundaries: Chatting outside the community
Let's talk aboooout boundaries!
I like to think of boundaries as invisible lines that help us feel safe, comfortable and empowered
Today's topic: what to do when someone asks to chat outside of this community.
Why boundaries are important:
To keep you safe: Talking privately with someone you don't know well could lead to uncomfortable situations.
To protect your privacy: You control what information you share online.
They empower you! It's okay to say no, and it shows you respect yourself and your needs.
So, someone asks to chat elsewhere. What now?
Here's the thing: It's completely okay to say no! Here are some ways to politely decline:
Bonus Phrases! (Feel free to adapt these!)
Remember:
You don't owe anyone an explanation.
If someone pressures you, trust your gut and report them to a moderator.
There's no shame in prioritising your comfort!
Let's discuss!
Have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?
What are some other ways to set boundaries online?
Share your best tips for staying safe in online communities!
I like to think of boundaries as invisible lines that help us feel safe, comfortable and empowered
Today's topic: what to do when someone asks to chat outside of this community.
Why boundaries are important:
To keep you safe: Talking privately with someone you don't know well could lead to uncomfortable situations.
To protect your privacy: You control what information you share online.
They empower you! It's okay to say no, and it shows you respect yourself and your needs.
So, someone asks to chat elsewhere. What now?
Here's the thing: It's completely okay to say no! Here are some ways to politely decline:
Be direct: "Thanks for reaching out, but I prefer to keep our conversations within the community."
Offer an alternative: "I like chatting here, but if you have a question, feel free to post it publicly."
Explain your boundaries: "I keep my online interactions within this platform for safety reasons."
Bonus Phrases! (Feel free to adapt these!)
"That's not really comfortable for me, thanks though!"
"I appreciate the offer, but I'm not interested in chatting privately."
"Let's keep the conversation going here for now!"
Remember:
You don't owe anyone an explanation.
If someone pressures you, trust your gut and report them to a moderator.
There's no shame in prioritising your comfort!
Let's discuss!
Have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?
What are some other ways to set boundaries online?
Share your best tips for staying safe in online communities!
ella
6
New Friday Support Thread Moderator :)
Hello Everyone!
I'm a new support thread moderator. I'm a student at University right now studying the arts. I love to Paint, Draw, Write, and, in general, anything crafty! I'm also a massive animal lover and Foodie.
I'm excited to join this fantastic community, and to get to know you all!
I'm a new support thread moderator. I'm a student at University right now studying the arts. I love to Paint, Draw, Write, and, in general, anything crafty! I'm also a massive animal lover and Foodie.
I'm excited to join this fantastic community, and to get to know you all!
Sophien
6
Re: The poem spot
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I learnt to talk myself through the dark times,
And I believe it’s because, of the way my mother needed me,
I thought, she needed a life line,
I thought… she’d die if I didn’t keep a watchful eye,
And I thought I could take her darkness, clear her pain and make her happy again.
I remember telling her to look at the bright blue sky,
And to feel the wind as it past us right on by.
I told her about the greatest wonders of life,
Like making mud pies and watching the birds fly.
And at night,
when I seen tears leave her eyes,
I hugged her extra tight,
And I hoped,
That come morning light,
She’d still be with us, to see the sun rise.
I learnt to talk myself through the dark times,
And I believe it’s because, of the way my mother needed me,
I thought, she needed a life line,
I thought… she’d die if I didn’t keep a watchful eye,
And I thought I could take her darkness, clear her pain and make her happy again.
I remember telling her to look at the bright blue sky,
And to feel the wind as it past us right on by.
I told her about the greatest wonders of life,
Like making mud pies and watching the birds fly.
And at night,
when I seen tears leave her eyes,
I hugged her extra tight,
And I hoped,
That come morning light,
She’d still be with us, to see the sun rise.
Re: The poem spot
I say I don't care but I'm lying
I don’t care if I’m not seen,
But I’m not hiding,
I don’t care if you’re not talking to me,
But I’m listening,
I don’t care if you don’t hug me,
But I’m waiting,
I don’t care if you don’t love me,
But my heart is breaking.
I don’t care if I’m not seen,
But I’m not hiding,
I don’t care if you’re not talking to me,
But I’m listening,
I don’t care if you don’t hug me,
But I’m waiting,
I don’t care if you don’t love me,
But my heart is breaking.
Re: I need a hug (v2.0) 💚
So many bad thoughts tonight, really struggling. Tried talk to helpline yet they just ended the chat when I said I was suicidal
River
6