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tw sh/scars rant. im so angry :(

eylaheylah Posts: 9,108 Supreme Poster
in Health & Wellbeing
if sh/scars mention trigger you pls dont read. just a rant abt how i feel bc it rly upset me.
just went and got my nails done and I had a short sleeved top on bc it was rly hot but some woman decided to think it was ok to say i shouldn’t wear a short sleeved top bc my scars are rly noticeable apparently and bc apparently no one wants to see that. i just had a massive cry bc it rly got to me bc ive been through shit and she had no right to say that. it rly bothered me :/. i dont feel comfortable now wearing short sleeved tops :/. im allowed to wear whatever i want and i shouldn’t have to hide my scars bc of some ppl who have no respect. im so angry :( its so disrespectful to point it out either in front of many ppl. i felt so embarrassed :(.

ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,266 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 26
    eylah wrote: »
    if sh/scars mention trigger you pls dont read. just a rant abt how i feel bc it rly upset me.
    just went and got my nails done and I had a short sleeved top on bc it was rly hot but some woman decided to think it was ok to say i shouldn’t wear a short sleeved top bc my scars are rly noticeable apparently and bc apparently no one wants to see that. i just had a massive cry bc it rly got to me bc ive been through shit and she had no right to say that. it rly bothered me :/. i dont feel comfortable now wearing short sleeved tops :/. im allowed to wear whatever i want and i shouldn’t have to hide my scars bc of some ppl who have no respect. im so angry :( its so disrespectful to point it out either in front of many ppl. i felt so embarrassed :(.

    @eylah Im really really sorry that was said to you, you're absolutely right you can wear whatever you want and thats a disgusting thing that person said. Your feelings are valid. Im really sorryyiu had go through that.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,108 Supreme Poster
    .thankyou.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,373 Boards Champion
    edited August 27
    Hi @eylah, thank you for sharing this with us. Echoing what @Redemption says, you're allowed to wear what you'd like. I'm sorry to hear this happened to you, it isn't kind and it's clearly upsetting for you. Please don't let one person's comment stop you from wearing what you like to wear!
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  • 63marie63marie Posts: 55 Boards Initiate
    Hey @eylah, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can really empathise with how hard it is when people judge you based on your scars, it's really unfair for them to make you feel that way. You deserve to wear what you want and feel comfortable <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,108 Supreme Poster
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hi @eylah, thank you for sharing this with us. Echoing what @Redemption says, you're allowed to wear what you'd like. I'm sorry to hear this happened to you, it isn't kind and it's clearly upsetting for you. Please don't let one person's comment stop you from wearing what you like to wear!
    63marie wrote: »
    Hey @eylah, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can really empathise with how hard it is when people judge you based on your scars, it's really unfair for them to make you feel that way. You deserve to wear what you want and feel comfortable <3

    thankyou both so much for replying. it means a lot to me <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,905 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    if sh/scars mention trigger you pls dont read. just a rant abt how i feel bc it rly upset me.
    just went and got my nails done and I had a short sleeved top on bc it was rly hot but some woman decided to think it was ok to say i shouldn’t wear a short sleeved top bc my scars are rly noticeable apparently and bc apparently no one wants to see that. i just had a massive cry bc it rly got to me bc ive been through shit and she had no right to say that. it rly bothered me :/. i dont feel comfortable now wearing short sleeved tops :/. im allowed to wear whatever i want and i shouldn’t have to hide my scars bc of some ppl who have no respect. im so angry :( its so disrespectful to point it out either in front of many ppl. i felt so embarrassed :(.

    @eylah I just wanted to say that what they said to you was nothing but cruel. You've been through hell, and nobody has the right to judge you, or to say anything like that. She said no one wants to see that. Well nobody wants to listen to her insulting and cruel comments. As you said, you are entitled to wear what you want, you should never feel like you have to hide, and the person who said that has no right, was beyond disrespectful, and just monstrous. I can't imagine how anxiety inducing that whole situation was, and i'm so sorry you had to go through that.

    You have the heart of an angel Eylah, and whoever said that, can screw off.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,108 Supreme Poster
    thankyou.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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