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Can't

I can't cope with my heart getting constantly shattered, locked myself in my room on verge of tears. It's too much to cope with, I can't do it anymore. No one gets it, no one gets I get to attached so quickly. People just tear my heart to pieces. I can't do it. Just gonna cut everyone off 😭
People leave me constantly, I'm just a stupid problem that no one wants to deal with. It hurts, it fucking hurts 💔
People leave me constantly, I'm just a stupid problem that no one wants to deal with. It hurts, it fucking hurts 💔
✨ ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝒷𝓇𝒶𝓋ℯ. ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝒷𝓇𝓊𝒾𝓈ℯ𝒹. ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝓌𝒽ℴ 𝒾𝓂 𝓂ℯ𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝓉ℴ 𝒷ℯ ✨
✨ 𝒯ℋℐ𝒮 ℐ𝒮 ℳℰ ✨
✨ 𝒯ℋℐ𝒮 ℐ𝒮 ℳℰ ✨
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Comments
Sometimes people might not know or understand just how quickly we can get attached. Other times, people might have their own issues going on that mean they have to take a step back. Or sometimes it's just mismatch between communication and expectations.
Whatever the reason, being left can feel really painful and I understand why you might feel like resorting to cut everyone off. It's tempting because this way you can't get hurt again. But perhaps it's more about finding a balance instead? For example, when getting to know someone new, trying to slow things down so that you don't get too attached, but still allowing room for that attachment to grow when you can trust the person more? And perhaps finding and maintaining friendships/relationships with people we are compatible with so that we can be ourselves, even when that means being really attached to someone. By closing yourself off, you may miss out on other, more positive experiences.
Hope this helps a little and take care