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Kate_20
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I know that no matter what I do my parents would shout at me if it appears weird to them. They do not want to know about the underlying reasons. They think I am finding excuses for myself. All the small details in life are reasons for them to be angry with me. I don't think doing anything can fix that. I will always be inferior to other people. I am never enough. No matter what I achieved or how hard I tried, I will never have a place in this world.
Tengo el alma en cuarentena y roto el cuerpo
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
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I just want to firstly say thank you so much for reaching out! It takes a lot of courage to open up about how you feel but it is also very important to take that first step. So well done for that!
Please try to remember always that you do have a place in this world! Everyone does and that is why we have been put here. I am sure you have achieved so much and it is important to recognise your achievements. Sometimes, we can be our own biggest critics, which makes us feel like others feel the same towards us as we do; the truth is there are people who think you are amazing...for a starter I definitely do. I think it is amazing that you have reached out to us!
Have you tried to sit down and have an open conversation with your parents, if that is at all possible? I know it may sometimes seem daunting and impossible, but, most of the time, our parents do want the best for us, even if they do have a strange way of showing it occasionally! Maybe if you haven't spoken to them properly, it could be a good idea to try!
If not, please remember that we are always here to listen to you, and if you want to send me a private message, please feel free! I understand sometimes things get on top of us, but it is important to remember that you do have a place on this earth, and a very valuable one at that!
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
Again, I want you to know that your life does not have to be bleak! I think sometimes we all question some of our choices and whether our lives are going to be as positive as we hoped. Personally, as a uni student, I have got to the stage in my life where I need to decide what to do next, and so I empathise that times can become confusing and anxiety can get the best of us. Do you go to school or university?
Another thing that might help you to feel positive is setting yourself some attainable goals that aren't career-based or academic. I love doing things like setting myself the challenge to cook something I've never tried before, or to set myself the goal of walking 10,000 steps in the countryside or at a local park or lake. I find that getting some fresh air and trying new things really helps to get some perspective and to take time for yourself is super important!!
Thank you for replying to me, and know that I am here to listen to whatever problems or anxieties you have. We can work this out together!
Sending massive hugs
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
I'm in my third year too, although, as a criminology and psychology student, my dissertation taking so much reading that I don't know if I'll ever get down to writing it lol.
Can I ask why you feel guilty looking at the artwork? You should never feel guilty for looking at inspiration! And I'm sure that if you are doing an art-based degree, then you must have had some talent to even get onto the course, let alone be in one of the final years!
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
Have you tried reaching out to a mental health charity? Places like the Samaritans and Mind are always good places to go to seek help from other people...they may even be able to point you in the way of getting some professional help.
Like I've said before, I really do empathise with feeling anxious and alone, but it is so important to remember that you have people, like me, who are here to just listen and offer some support.
I am so proud that you are reaching out to me and replying, I know it can be so hard, but recognising is the first step!
Please do remember that finishing a degree is such an achievement, and I know you will make it to graduation with an amazing grade, so well done in advance!! What degree do you take?
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
I understand that it may not be practical to call any charities if you do not have access to a phone...some of them have live chat functions on their websites like this forum kind of thing, that might be a good place to start!
Until you have the means, remember I am here to support and listen!!
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
I honestly think the best idea for you would be to go and see your GP! They can be so helpful at times like this, with both your physical and emotional symptoms and feelings that you have at the moment! It is very important that you get the help you need, these people are trained and will want to help you!! I am speaking from experience!!
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
I would pledge to you to try the GP, as they should not inform the police unless you give them permission or if you are in absolute danger, as I'm sure they have to follow confidentiality if you ask them. I honestly believe they are the best way forward for you, but I understand you may not want to reach out to them!!
Thanks for reaching out and supporting each other. It is this support that makes our community the wonderful place it is. I am just wondering how you are both feeling today? Is there anything I can help with? I am here for you both
I am absolutely fine! I was just using uni examples to explain to @Kate_20 that I empathise with how she must feel about certain things! Obviously it can be stressful at times but I am just glad I was able to offer some support!
I just hope you are okay today @Kate_20 !!
Indeed, university can be stressful sometimes. I promise it is worth it in the end though