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Maybe leaving (again...)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
in General Chat
I know I've said this several times :sweat_smile: This is the last one, don't worry.

I've tried giving the boards another go and I don't know what I think. I feel unwanted, apprehensive and unneeded on here. It's not anyone's fault, it's just general feelings I'm struggling with that are interfering with my time on the boards.

If I do leave, it's only gonna be partly. I'll always still be reachable through PM, and I might drop some hugs around. But I likely wouldn't be commenting or really interacting anymore.

I'm just posting so you know what's going on if I disappear at any point. If the problems would go away I'd like to stay here, but I just can't stop feeling useless. Again, it's general feelings, not because of anyone <3

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    Um... I decided to just get my account deleted... :P Okay, I guess it's proper goodbye from me now. Sorry.

    I love you all <3
  • DancerDancer Community Connector Posts: 8,307 Legendary Poster
    I love you too (in a friend way.) You will always be missed and remembered in a good way.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Hey, :heart:

    You'll always be welcome back here when and if you feel ready, we will be here. We care about you and you will be missed but you got to do what is best for you :heart:

    Take care of yourself :heart:
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,541 Boards Guru
    Hey :)

    Sorry to hear you go! Wish you the best for the future!x

    Much love <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    Kathleen07 said:
    Um... I decided to just get my account deleted... :P
    Actually, no I'm not *rolls eyes*

    I'm really so sorry. I keep bringing this up in the heat of the moment. I always think I've thought things through, but thing is, my feelings are contradicting. I want to leave because I think everyone wants me gone, but I don't want to leave for a few reasons.

    But this is the last time. As is evident by the amount of times I've talked of leaving, my feelings aren't gonna change. I'm definitely just leaving this time and I won't be giving more false alarms.

    I'll just do the leaving partly thing that I talked about in my first post. My account will still be here and my inbox always open - if anyone needs me or just wants a chat :) - I just probably won't interact on the boards and will be a lot less active.
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,131 An Original Mixlorian
    We love you, Kathleen! I admire how supportive to everyone you are on here :) You’re always welcome
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • Former MemberFormer Member Carer/musician Posts: 819 Part of The Mix Family
    Hey Kathleen, 

    Dont worry about needing to take space away from the boards we all have days were we need some space. We are always here for you when ever you need to rant, scream, or even just want a hug. I'm not active on my account much but that's cos I'm busy so it's okay to take time for you and if you need support in really hope you consider reaching out here on the boards. 

    Speak soon
    Abi
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,758 Skive's The Limit
    Do what's best for you <3 we will always be here either way 
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    Thank you all so much <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    I was going to post this in the hugs thread or activity profile but remembered this thread exists. I just want to bump it to say I'm leaving now. But please don't feel like you can't message me, if you do I'll come back on to reply to you. I'm in a really bad place at the moment and I just want to isolate myself (hopefully that doesn't sound self-pitying lol).

    Thank you for giving me a place to be listened to and stay strong x
  • AoifeAoife Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    edited September 2024
    We're really going to miss you @Past User <3

    I'm sorry to hear you're not in a good place at the moment. Keep fighting and holding onto that little bit of hope that things can and will get better because they really can. You're an amazing person and have so much strength which I really admire. Look after yourself and I really hope to see you back here soon <3
    Post edited by TheMix on
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,054 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    We will miss you a lot @Past User :heart:
    Take the time you need to feel better and just know that we will always be here for you. You are so important and I wish you the very very best - you deserve to be so happy :heart: Take good care x
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 660 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    Hey @Past User

    We will definitely miss you! But you are always welcome to come back if and when you need to. :3

    I just wanted to leave you with a quote- "YOU MATTER"  <3

    From what we know of you, you are a really strong and incredible person, keep fighting  <3

    Jade 
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,758 Skive's The Limit
    Will miss you Kathleen <3. Always here if you want support. Really hope things improve for you soon <3 x
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    Thank you <3 (I had to pop back on just now to check something on my account). Everyone's kind messages make me smile a bit, hope you're all okay x
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