I feel so gross being lusted over

Helo I'm new here uhm I just want to express something since I'm very embarrassed to tell my own people I have been texting someone two years older than me since days ( in context m over 18 freshly this year) :0 he was making me feel safe and sound we sexted a bit actually I was amazed he wrote all of it uhm he asked me to things for him I send him my nudes

thankfully it was view once I knew he'll leave me after getting what he wants and after all of that assurance and kindness fade when he got it and blocked me that night I feel so gross being lusted over

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Nemuritai

Hi there @fana - nice to meet you first of all, it's really good to have you here.

I'm genuinely sorry that happened, nobody deserves to be taken advantage of like that, and you are not an exception. It must have been really upsetting to be blocked as soon as someone got what they wanted from you.

I may not be the most qualified person here to give advice, but I can assure you that you deserve better. You deserve to find someone who values you for who you are as a person, and who genuinely cares about you.

You are heard, and you're always welcome here if you ever want to talk or vent about anything. Sending virtual hugs (if you're comfortable)

Katie

Hey @fana firstly I just want to say a big welcome to our Community. You've done so well to take that first step and reach out for support.

I'm hearing that you've been texting someone recently and you did send them some nudes. It sounds like it was view once and he did block you after receiving this. This sounds like a really tricky situation and I can imagine it feeling really unexpected after you had built up trust with this person and was getting to know them.

I'm mindful it's been a couple of days since this post so I wonder how you're feeling now? Do you feel comfortable sharing if you've heard from this person again?

I also want to let you know there is an organisation called Shore which is a safe space for teenagers worried about sexual behaviour, and their services are 100% anonymous. Their website offers upfront and clear information on sex and the law. They have a topic library full of “What to do if…” advice pages, including "What to do if…You’ve shared a nude, or been sent one". They have a live-chat open Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays 5pm-8pm. They also have an anonymous email service where they can answer any questions you may feel uncomfortable asking anyone else. Your email address will be encrypted so they will never see it but you will get the reply sent straight to your inbox. For more information on their services go to https://shorespace.org.uk/

fana

I'm okay now ig I'll see :')

Katie

Hey @fana I'm glad to hear you're feeling okay now. If you do want to share more about what has been going on recently, this is a safe space and we're here to listen