feeling frustrated

shannon_164

hey🙂

i’m not sure where to even post this so i apologise if it’s in the wrong place but anyways, several months ago now i signed up for a netball thing. i have spent all those months waiting and waiting to finally be able to join. eventually, i get the email about joining which i was really excited about so the girl then text me about it and i asked about how it would work as i cannot commit to every week due to my job, i will be able to most weeks and i get my hours 4-6 weeks in advance too, but just so they’re aware i know i realistically cannot commit to every week at this time. after explaining how its light commitment etc to me and how that would be ok, today i then get an email to say that i was removed:)

i am literally sat in the library right now crying over this because i FINALLY was going to have something in my week that i can look forward to but now that isnt even an option. it all came from the fact i hadn’t got round to replying to her message from a couple days ago because ive been working night shifts then in college with deadlines next week and just being absolutely wrecked in general. surely its unfair to remove me because i didnt reply? i would totally understand if she’d messaged several times and i didnt reply, but she messaged once and i shared how i was working night shifts atm hence my slow reply so she did know.

ugh im so annoyed now - ofc everything just gets worse everytime there’s the littlest glimmer of hope:(

independent_

Huge hugs - that is so frustrating! Especially because you were looking forward to it so much.

DonnerKebab

It's beyond cruel that. Have you considered that they might have thought you're no longer interested or something along those lines? Is it something you can maybe try and appeal against? Sorry if these are bad suggestions. Because removing you for 1 non text reply is insane. Like, what happens if you're phone broke, or you lost it? Even multiple missed messages isn't just cause for removing you.