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feeling so unwanted☹️

struggling0_0struggling0_0 Posts: 137 The Mix Convert
in Health & Wellbeing
this is probably really pathetic but i genuinely do feel so so unwanted in this world. my sister is always the one that’s more loved than me. it hurts so much. on my birthday, all i got from cousins etc was the generic message facebook already has set when it’s someone’s birthday, some of them were actually a few days late too. my sisters birthday, not even 8am and my cousins etc are all posting photos of her through the years with such cute little happy birthday messages. the part that’s got me even more is one of the photos i was actually in but on the specific post, i was cut out of it completely. it’s so silly i know but it just hurts so so much that she’s always been more loved and wanted by me - it’s always been that way.

i don’t really care about if people say happy birthday or not or stuff like that, its just the principle of the situation. what do i do that’s so wrong to be so disliked by everybody.

Comments

  • DurhamjaideDurhamjaide Posts: 1,259 Wise Owl
    You are wanted you are wanted in this community
  • struggling0_0struggling0_0 Posts: 137 The Mix Convert
    i don’t at all feel wanted anywhere, including here.
  • DurhamjaideDurhamjaide Posts: 1,259 Wise Owl
    That is so sad to hear
  • DurhamjaideDurhamjaide Posts: 1,259 Wise Owl
    How can we make you feel wanted?
  • Invisible_meInvisible_me Posts: 224 Trailblazer
    You are wanted!! Everyone has a space here and In the wider world! You won't believe this now (and it's hard for me to think this all time a well) but we all belong for different reasons in this world.
    It's a shame people in our lives make us feel we are not wanted/ important etc but you are.

    Also, when we feel overwhelmed, stressed, upset it's easy to fall in that trap of im not wanted etc and therefore then everything our brain will find things to then make us believe that we don't belong etc without that actually neccerdarily being the truth.

    Yes, while difficulties in family relations may be there which is adding to your feelings , understably. What about other people in your life- is there someone that has is going extra mile for you? speaks to you willingly? dome something nice/good/ helpful for you? Understood you? Stood by you? Supported you? There will be someone somewhere...

    You are wanted and im sure the community want you to feel this way as well- we are here for you
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