Tips for long distance relationships?

Lola_G

Heyy, so I just saw my boyfriend today for the last time before we go to uni again. He goes to one that’s 2hrs away by train so I see him maybe every few weeks, so next time will maybe be Valentine’s Day. I just feel really lonely when I leave him or when he leaves, and he does of course miss me but I feel as though I feel the separation more heavily than he does.

I also have an anxious attachment style ( not confirmed but pretty sure I do) which I’m trying to fix and it’s gotten better recently I’d say but it still plays a part in the loneliness I feel and needing to see him.

So yeah, I was just wondering if anyone has any tips for dealing with the loneliness and also any ways of self care to make myself feel better with being alone. And of course long distance relationship in general! ❤️Thank you x


Also I’m still a little new here so I hope it’s okay I posted this on Health and wellbeing instead of Sex and Relationships?😭

Katie

Hey @Lola_G just popping in to say I've moved this over to the Sex and Relationships category for you It feels more fitting there and no worries about being new! It can take some getting used to but if there's anything we can help you with on using the boards just post on our Help Desk

sinead276

whilst i haven't been in a long distance relationship myself, i'd say the biggest thing in general is communicating how you feel, don't keep everything too bottled up as it typically leads to overthinking etc.

and i'd say if you've got hobbies or interests, try and dive into those a bit. not only will it be things you enjoy but also keep your mind off the fact you and him are distanced. and spend time with friends and fanily that love you too.

hope you're able to manage the distance and that you're doing okay
sending hugs