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Wanting male validation which I’ll never recieve feels fucking awful (femcel rant)
bignosegirly0
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Ages ago, I’ve came to this sad realisation that a woman’s worth is based on how sexually attractive she is. And considering how porn is ruining men’s standards, to the point where literal models like Sydney Sweetney, ice spice or Margot Robbie is considered ugly, I try not to beat myself up. Because I realised that there’s no point trying to perform for an ungreatful audience, because I or any other woman will ever be good enough. Even women who are accepted by men sadly face a situation when porn addicted men eventually get bored of them and decided that they’re no longer attractive (whether it’s because of age, weight change etc)
But when I actually face a situation where men will jab at me because I don’t look like a pornstar, makes me feel shit. When I’m alone, I can accept myself, despite being disgusting and not meeting up to todays standards.
I hate men whose brains have been rotten by porn. But at the same time, I crave their validation so then I could finally mean something in life.
I know not all men are like this, but from my personal experience, most men have taught me I’m worthless because I don’t look fuckable.
It also doesn’t help I live in a mostly heterosexual area. If I lived around more queer women, I would have imagined I would have a better chance in getting into a relationship as a bisexual woman. But instead, I’m stuck with 20 year old men who got ruined by porn and automatically think I’m worthless in this world for not looking sexually appealing.
But when I actually face a situation where men will jab at me because I don’t look like a pornstar, makes me feel shit. When I’m alone, I can accept myself, despite being disgusting and not meeting up to todays standards.
I hate men whose brains have been rotten by porn. But at the same time, I crave their validation so then I could finally mean something in life.
I know not all men are like this, but from my personal experience, most men have taught me I’m worthless because I don’t look fuckable.
It also doesn’t help I live in a mostly heterosexual area. If I lived around more queer women, I would have imagined I would have a better chance in getting into a relationship as a bisexual woman. But instead, I’m stuck with 20 year old men who got ruined by porn and automatically think I’m worthless in this world for not looking sexually appealing.
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