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Signs someone is obsessed with you

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  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,399 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    Hey @Past User, that's a good question. It can difficult to say sometimes, because there's a scale between "normal" behaviour and "obsessive" behaviour, with activity in the middle, "normal, but coming off strong". In a general sense, I'd say that it feels like the elements of normal attraction, but dialled up to a level that's pretty uncomfortable. For example:

    - Messaging back and forth is normal; being bombarded with calls and texts might be uncomfortable
    - Feeling some sort of emotional attachment is natural; feeling possessive over that person, to the point where jealousy and threats are made if they don't comply is definitely uncomfortable.

    Would you be able to explain a little more about the situation? We're here to listen to you <3
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  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,399 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    @Past User That's okay, you can share only if you're comfortable to do so. Sorry to hear that you didn't have a positive experience with The Mix last time - you deserve to be heard and listened to.

    I'd suggest either trying The Mix again, or perhaps you could try contacting Samaritans to talk about how you feel:

    The Mix - https://www.themix.org.uk/get-support
    Samaritans - https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/
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