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whats the fuckin point anymore?.......oh wait there isnt one :|

Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    You have done really well to post about how you are truly feeling at the moment @Past User, it shows a lot of courage - especially as you are really hurting at the moment. Have you got anyone who you can hug and cry to? We are here with you, by your side, and listening to you.

    I can hear how you do not feel able to speak up about what has been helping though, particularly in a group context such as the community. There is also The Mix's Helpline and Crisis Service if you feel more comfortable talking to The Mix about what has been happening on a 1-1 basis.

    It sounds really difficult that you don't feel like you belong anywhere or have anyone you can rely on - who does not leave you or hurt you. Your feelings are really valid and I can hear how you are going through some really difficult things at the moment.

    We are really glad you are still here with us, even though that is really difficult for you at the moment. We really care about you and your thoughts and feelings and safety really matter to us. In an ideal world, what would help look like at the moment? :)
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  • LydsRose9LydsRose9 Posts: 106 The Mix Convert
    edited September 18
    @Past User , as @Laura_tigger82 says, it takes a lot of courage to talk about how you’re really feeling, especially when the pain is overwhelming. Your honesty is something to be proud of, and the people telling you that that they are tired of you opening up about your feelings clearly don’t understand the courage that it takes to do that.

    I want you to know that although I’ve not been part of this community for long, you are a user that I see contributing often, with really insightful posts and contrary to what you think, I would absolutely notice if you were no longer on these chats, and I know I’m not the only one. You are so appreciated on these forums and we want you around!

    Things are clearly very tough at the moment, but your feelings are completely true and valid and I hope you know that there are so many people on this forum that want to listen and help in any way that we can🩷
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    Keep fighting the good fight!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Champion Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
    @Laura_tigger82 no once again I have no one, someone to listen to me without jumping to conclusions and shit...sorry i missed the last question out

    morgyn you have me? I'm not expecting you to trust me straight away but I'm always always here if you want to talk. if there's anything I can do to help even if that's just listening then I'd love to do that <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Champion Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    and please remember that you're going through so so much not for you to just end it...what would be the point of that? keep fighting and I promise you all the pain will be worth it when you come out the other side. I know you think you're not strong but you're going through so so so much shit and I really do admire you for getting through every day.
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    You are never burdening any of us by talking to us about how you are feeling @Past User. We are all here for you and we all really care about you <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Champion Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    @Past User oh noo is the spider gone?? I came across a huge ass daddy long legs during work experience the other day and I had to get rid of it myself bcs I was the only one in the room besides a bunch of kids, it was very very scary but I did it :)

    honestly I don't see it as putting your burden on me. I've learnt to be kinda thick skinned and ig I'm still a sensitive person but most of the things you could say that would trigger me wouldn't trigger me anymore that much. think of it as you helping me actually. I want to go into psychology and maybe become a therapist so this could be like training? or even just experience for me so I can learn to help others in my life. I genuinely think though that if I can help you even a teeny tiny bit it will make me feel so much better. so please don't think about it as you putting a burden on me!
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    That's really not true @Past User but I can hear how you are feeling this way, nevertheless, because you are really struggling at the moment :/
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Champion Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    @Past User you really don't burden me at all, honestly. please feel free to send me a message whenever you need someone to talk to or just someone to listen.
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Nope @Past User, your mind is lying!! <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    It is @Past User :'(
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    I am not lying to make you feel better. I can only tell the truth and if that makes you feel better then even better @Past User :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member <3 Deactivated Posts: 296 The Mix Regular
    edited July 2023
    R u ok?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member <3 Deactivated Posts: 296 The Mix Regular
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
    @Blc_2004 can u pm me

    ok
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  • JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,600 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Hey folks, just dropping in to say the mod team made a few edits to this discussion. We removed parts of comments that could cause other community members to worry about you @Past User.

    I also wanted to acknowledge for everyone else that @TheMix has been in touch over DM to check in around your safety and whether you need any urgent support. :)

    If you ever do find yourself at breaking point like this - either with self-harm urges or suicidal thoughts - I'd really recommend reaching out to crisis services. They can get back to you more quickly with more specialised support than community members can, and you don't need to filter what you say when you speak to them. Here are those details:
    Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
    Samartians (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
    Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
    Supportline (hours vary) | call 01708 765 200
    Childline | call 0800 11 11
    How are you holding up today?
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    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.
    The truth resists simplicity.
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