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whats the fuckin point anymore?.......oh wait there isnt one :|
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I can hear how you do not feel able to speak up about what has been helping though, particularly in a group context such as the community. There is also The Mix's Helpline and Crisis Service if you feel more comfortable talking to The Mix about what has been happening on a 1-1 basis.
It sounds really difficult that you don't feel like you belong anywhere or have anyone you can rely on - who does not leave you or hurt you. Your feelings are really valid and I can hear how you are going through some really difficult things at the moment.
We are really glad you are still here with us, even though that is really difficult for you at the moment. We really care about you and your thoughts and feelings and safety really matter to us. In an ideal world, what would help look like at the moment?
I want you to know that although I’ve not been part of this community for long, you are a user that I see contributing often, with really insightful posts and contrary to what you think, I would absolutely notice if you were no longer on these chats, and I know I’m not the only one. You are so appreciated on these forums and we want you around!
Things are clearly very tough at the moment, but your feelings are completely true and valid and I hope you know that there are so many people on this forum that want to listen and help in any way that we can🩷
morgyn you have me? I'm not expecting you to trust me straight away but I'm always always here if you want to talk. if there's anything I can do to help even if that's just listening then I'd love to do that
honestly I don't see it as putting your burden on me. I've learnt to be kinda thick skinned and ig I'm still a sensitive person but most of the things you could say that would trigger me wouldn't trigger me anymore that much. think of it as you helping me actually. I want to go into psychology and maybe become a therapist so this could be like training? or even just experience for me so I can learn to help others in my life. I genuinely think though that if I can help you even a teeny tiny bit it will make me feel so much better. so please don't think about it as you putting a burden on me!
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I also wanted to acknowledge for everyone else that @TheMix has been in touch over DM to check in around your safety and whether you need any urgent support.
If you ever do find yourself at breaking point like this - either with self-harm urges or suicidal thoughts - I'd really recommend reaching out to crisis services. They can get back to you more quickly with more specialised support than community members can, and you don't need to filter what you say when you speak to them. Here are those details:
How are you holding up today?