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OH MY COWS
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So way back long ago I mentioned a guy named Xxak (not his actual name) in one of my previous posts. I just went to the gas station I used to work and saw him. Asked him a quick question about my gauges because I was concerned about ripping one of my earlobes and I had to ask him for an application for a friend. I saw other previous coworkers which was really nice. When I was walking out to drive home, Xxak was in his car and pulled me aside..!! We chatted briefly not really about anything serious and he was like "hey let me know if you'd ever be down to hang." I know exactly what this means because of our previous history together and I'm elated!! I have missed him and thought about going back and trying to start a relationship with him again once I turned 18 (which is in 4 months) but I'm happy to hear that he wants to at least start hanging out again. My only dilemma is that I don't have a phone right now and probably won't till school starts again. But I get my car next weekend soooooo!!! Oh my freaking cows. He's still so freaking beautiful ugh. Anyways. I'm also trying to get my life back together after I basically went on a month long bender so maybe not? I have to decide if that relationship is going to be good for me in the future or not. I also kind of like someone else so.
Also I am self- loathing because I sound very straight when in fact I'm not but I don't know. I talk mainly about guys, but women and nonbinary people!! I'm pansexual, I just have been going after men a lot I guess. Anywaysss🤭
Also I am self- loathing because I sound very straight when in fact I'm not but I don't know. I talk mainly about guys, but women and nonbinary people!! I'm pansexual, I just have been going after men a lot I guess. Anywaysss🤭
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Definitely think it's a good idea to give the relationship some thought, especially if you're interested in someone else. It can feel really exciting to think about, but also it's worth considering how it affects other areas of life and priorities too. That way, if you do decide to go for it, you'll feel better on making that decision. I hope that whatever you decide, it brings you happiness
And yeah.. I might end up doing it cause he's literally so pretty and hard to say no to but ugh idk. I'm not gonna make rash decisions:)
anyway lmk if u do anything w him but yuppp please don't make rash decisionssss!!! i make way too many rash decisions it's really concerning 😭
I do want to say though, I agree on not rushing anything. Definitely take some time, where you're feeling a lot calmer. People always say not to make major decisions based on elevated emotions. Perhaps ask yourself if he can really give you the commitment you want and a true loving relationship, and that the same patterns / behaviours before won't happen again. You deserve more than casual if that's what you want !! I do also think that if you're going through some stuff that you want to heal from / sort out, maybe you owe yourself some time for yourself, to tackle that with independence as it can lead to over-dependence in a relationship....Unless you believe he can support you with everything? Try not to let the physical attraction remove the importance of emotional stability! I hope it all goes well!