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  • JJLemon18JJLemon18 Community Connector Posts: 2,104 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    I'm sorry to hear that @Past User, sounds like things are really tough for you right now. And its absolutely okay to cry. Just remember that it will get better, it will always get better! If you want to vent out some of your frustrations then please do, we're here to listen. Sending big hugs <3
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    Believe in me - who believes in you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 271 The Mix Regular
    edited September 2024
    @Past User I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone you trust for support, such as a friend, family member, or mental health professional. Take some time to take care of yourself! A cup of coffee or tea and cake might help :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 77 Budding Regular
    I understand completely. The feeling is familiar. You're never good enough... you keep trying but you are never there... You're tired... You had enough... Maybe it is better to end it all... Nothing is working... Even talking about it to others is a struggle and will not solve much... However, there is a will inside of me that wants to keep going even if it is pointless and maybe nothing will change. I think it is because I have a desire and a specific dream. Most likely you will not relate to this part at all but if you think talking to someone else about your feelings is useless, perhaps you should search for something that will keep the light inside of you shining in this darkness. If that is difficult, we are here to help you. I will gladly take your side and walk with you on your journey. Message me or TheMix community if you feel lost, need someone to hear you out, or need a friend. We can do this together! :3 You can take your time but no matter what I will wait for you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Miss Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 132 The Mix Convert
    edited September 2024
    Hi @Past User sorry to hear that you are feeling this way, is there someone in your life that you can discuss this with like a friend, family, mental health service? I know it may not seem this way right now but it does get easier. Now might be a good time to take some time out and take care of yourself, do things that bring you comfort and we are also here to help <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member muda muda Posts: 122 The Mix Convert
    edited September 2024
    @Past User it must be very difficult right now. It's totally fine to not engage in battle, you've done well and you must allow yourself to rest. We're here for you if you need anything :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    @Past User agreed if only it was that easy sometmes it feels like those ppl from samaritans, childline r just trying to get rid of us
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    or ik @Past User reflect on what we talked abt thats what someone said to me when i was having suicidal thoughts
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    Past User wrote: »
    @libbystrawberry proffesionals are in well an good with qualifications but they need to be willing to help

    yes exactly
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    @Past User its pointless all of them say the same things
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  • Former MemberFormer Member muda muda Posts: 122 The Mix Convert
    edited September 2024
    @Past User
    of course, those things never solve anything. These things can help alleviate our internal struggles but never solve them. We would all love for our problems to be fixed but unfortunately, our current scientific progress is still not progressive enough despite it appearing to be so. It's truly frustrating and disappointing that there is nothing, absolutely nothing at all that can solve such issues. It makes me think that the world and everyone who is enjoying much better times than myself as lower and stupid. We can talk about our problems and try to find ways to alleviate them, but they are ultimately supporters watching you try to battle this darkness, these supporters may help you experience a different kind of battle yet it's still a battle.
    Allow yourself to succumb to the darkness, allow yourself to fall victim to it. Besides, since this battle ultimately involves yourself, you are the one that ultimately alters the outcomes of each battle - you can be its victim, survivor, or victor.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    @CaniceQ u sound soo wise
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    edited September 2024
    Past User wrote: »
    @libbystrawberry its the fancy words :p

    yes @Past User succumb alleviate, victor
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