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I don't know what to do
Hey so basically, I have an older brother who has quite a big age gap from me, lives quite far away (I don't see him often) ans is quite conventionally attractive and I have been really worried that I have inappropriate feelingsfor him for a while now. It seems that every time there's a solution, something else crops up and I panic and spiral over it until I find an explanation. I was doing fine recently until my mother said he has been on a date. I was immediately filled with dread. I think this is partly because that kind of topic/bringing him up can set me off anyway but also I really look up to him but I get very little attention from him and the possibility of a girlfriend means that attention would be divided again. Although, I don't feel this way when I hear that he's been seeing his friends but I guess a girlfriend is more perminent and serious? I'm just so confused right now and want to know if this is normal? Thanks for reading