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Don't know weather I can go on any longer

Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
edited December 2022 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Please don't apologise @Past User. You have done really well sharing this with us, it shows a lot of courage.

    I can hear how you are trying to please everyone else, even if that is not yourself. This sounds really difficult but really brave of you to acknowledge and express it.

    We can hear that you are really struggling at the moment, holding on by a tiny thread and ready to break at the next harsh comment.

    No one has the right to do or say anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Please remember there is support available for you though, especially with feeling suicidal.

    Some resources you might find helpful include:

    We are also here for you and you can talk to us about things if you wish to and feel comfortable with doing so. It sounds like having people listen to you is something that is really important to you.

    Christmas can be a less enjoyable and more difficult time for some people, we hear you <3

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  • kaiikaii Posts: 573 Incredible Poster
    edited September 18
    Hey @Past User, I'm really sorry to hear that you've been going through such a difficult time. Please don't apologise for sharing this with us. I just wanted to say that I agree with @Laura_tigger82 has said, and the resources that they've given ^^

    I completely understand how difficult and exhausting it is pleasing others, as it seems that they can't accept you for being yourself. I would just like to mention that your own thoughts and choices are just as important as others'. I'm aware of how hard it is to switch to this mindset though, so small steps may help. :smile:

    I would also like to add that if you're comfortable with writing your feelings out, you can also text SHOUT to 85258 as they are a free, 24/7, confidential text service.

    You mentioned that you feel like nothing anyone says is going to help, and I understand this feeling greatly. Please remember that the community is here for you as a listening ear whenever - so please feel free to keep talking to us here. <3

    Sending hugs,

    Kai <3
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,430 Community Veteran
    edited September 18
    @Past User dont dampen urself for other ppl, dont let any1 in ur triangle who u dont want to, be proud of who u r and who u want b :)
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    How are you doing with this at the moment @Past User? Only if you want to talk about this with us, of course <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    I completely hear you @Past User. You have been through so much.

    It sounds like this is making you feel horrendous. In particular, you can't stop crying and it's making you feel unwell.

    Sending you hugs. If we can do anything to support you please don't hesitate to let us know <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    I wish I could magically make the pain go away for you @Past User. Unfortunately, I can't.

    However, I am here and listening to you. Just making sure you don't have to face this alone and without support <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    I hear you @Past User. You have been through so much and no wonder you are wanting the pain and stuff to stop.

    However, this is one part of your story. Your story will get brighter soon, hopefully <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    This makes it even more difficult for you, bless you @Past User. I can hear how you just want things to get better but it keeps getting worse.

    It sounds unbearable for you at the moment and this is understandable, especially given what you have experienced today. Not least on top of already grieving for your other friend.

    Keeping holding on <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Are you safe @Past User? You are doing really well sharing this with us.

    I can hear that talking to people about how you are currently feeling is not the easiest thing for you.

    I know nothing will help you through this but we are all here for you and listening to you <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Glad you are safe @Past User. Though, that doesn't take away how difficult things are for you at the moment <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    We hear you @Past User. Also, we don't need to report you as you are safe!

    We do care though and want to make sure you feel supported <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
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    You are welcome @Past User. How are you doing today? <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    That sounds really difficult @Past User :/ Would you like to tell us more about what that looks like for you this morning? We are all here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more with us <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
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    It is a really kind thing for you to do @Past User but I can hear the sense of responsibility you feel at the moment. How are you feeling about and coping with all of this? <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
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    It sounds like you are really struggling at the moment @Past User. You are doing so well talking to us about this.

    Would anything make this more manageable for you at the moment? Sending you hugs and a listening ear <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,307 Part of The Furniture
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    Please don't be sorry @Past User. We are all here with you - even if that's just listening to you :)
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