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Guy had a go at me
TheNightmare
Posts: 2,462 Boards Champion
I was out with my friend and I was filming videos of us doing drive by videos of his car then this guy came shouting and swearing at me.
I wasn't doing anything wrong, just on this road filming my friend drive by then the guy is shouting, first I don't think its for me then the shouting starts getting louder and louder then he come over to me. He was worried we might hit something and said we're making too much noise but it wasn't me driving the car and it was a public road, so thought it was ok. I feel traumatised now, I have been feeling down about it the past few hours and everything I have been just been overthinking it. People say get a job, go out with friends and wonder why i stay home and dont go out, this is exactly why because when I go out and get had a go at. I think im just overthinking it
I wasn't doing anything wrong, just on this road filming my friend drive by then the guy is shouting, first I don't think its for me then the shouting starts getting louder and louder then he come over to me. He was worried we might hit something and said we're making too much noise but it wasn't me driving the car and it was a public road, so thought it was ok. I feel traumatised now, I have been feeling down about it the past few hours and everything I have been just been overthinking it. People say get a job, go out with friends and wonder why i stay home and dont go out, this is exactly why because when I go out and get had a go at. I think im just overthinking it
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I know you have had some struggles with school / college and employment, so I understand why you may have felt down for a few hours after. Please don’t let something like this and people like that get the better of you. You and your friend were just trying to have fun and enjoy yourself, nobody should ever stop you from doing that.
Hope you are feeling a bit better now 😊
Although easier said than done, please try not to overthink it too much and don’t let it stop you from going out and having fun.
Sending hugs,
Sinead
Hi, cheers for the reply. My friend was up the road in his car and I was on my own but the guy was pissed of with my friend not me.
I'm forgetting it now plus i think either way it's not my fault maybe I should have just apologised to him