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🌧️ Mental health and Christmas🎄

Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loopDeactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
Christmas is a happy festive time for many of us! ⛄ But for others it can take its toll on our mental health 💕

Some of these could be things such as,
Feeling alone or left out, because everyone is happy and you're not.
- Wishing you didn't have to deal with it because of other events within your life.
- Wanting to celebrate it with someone who is struggling.
- Being angry at others views of a 'perfect' Christmas.

It can affect your mental health in other ways too such as
- It may be making it harder for you to spend it how you want.
- Stressful experiences at Christmas can make it worse.
- Enjoying it may trigger mania or hypomania.
- It can be harder to access services due to closure(Section on that further down)
- Christmas can involve lots of food which may be triggering to those with Eating disorders. 
- Time spent with family that you may not get along with, or opposite, time you can't spend with family especially this year.

Tips for coping during stressful times
- Be gentle, patient and kind to yourself. (Prioritise what is best for you, think about what you need, and consider talking to someone you trust)

- Look after yourself. (Remind yourself it won't last forever. Set your boundaries. Allow yourself to experience these feelings. Take time out. Give yourself the things you need. 
Talking to others.
 (Let people know you're struggling. Tell people what they can stop, start, or continue doing. Don't feel you have to justify yourself!)

Finally, here are some places that will remain open over the festive period.
Shout: Text SHOUT to 85258 24/7
Samaritans: Ring them on 116 123 Always open
The Mix: https://www.themix.org.uk/get-support/speak-to-our-team . Discussion boards will always be there. Group chats running as normal(subject to Mod availability) 
Beat: 0808 801 0677(Adult helpline) 0808 801 0711 (Youthline) 0808 801 0811(Studentline)
Beat will remain open both helplines and online services. Open from 4pm - 9pm from 24th december till 1st of January.
Useful links.
Beat: https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/
Mind list of services: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/depression/useful-contacts/
Childline: https://www.childline.org.uk/
Kooth: https://www.kooth.com/
Centerpoint: https://centrepoint.org.uk/
If you have any tips, questions, or just want to vent feel free to comment below! ☺️

Now in true fashion, thanks for reading, I hope you are taking care of yourself <3 Here's a doggo in a santa hat!

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Comments

  • Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    edited September 18
    Love this @Past User 

    Thanks for sharing 😁
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  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    This is an amazing post Laine. And that’s a very cute doggo.  <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Aw thanks guys! :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Really appreciate this post. Thank you!
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,040 Supreme Poster
    this post is really really helpful and so important so thank you so much for sharing it <3 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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