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Take the blackpill. Almost 21 years old never had sex, never held hands, never kissed and never hugged. I come on here "my bf" "my bf" "my bf" "my bf" but I'm entitled one are I. Meme gender. Tell me why I shouldn't dislike women for all the lying, bullying, humiliation, manipulation and abuse they've put me through? You women couldn't live a day in my shoes, I can count the words I've said in the past week on one hand, my phone has been on airplane mode for the past 6 months, nobody ever checks if I'm ok, if I'm even alive, I'm just a extra in someone else's life. I wasn't born hating anyone I was taught it, taught it by women through years and years of experience. Don't tell me I'm young and don't tell me I'm not missing out, if sex sucks so much then why are you all having it? If relationships are so difficult then why are you in one? And don't even start about my personality... did all those racists, abusers and misogynists you dated in highschool have great personalities? My personality was fine but everyone bullied anyway where was your sympathy then? And sure I'm just a mentally ill freak right? Notice how wherever a man is upset it's always his fault but when women have the slightest issue then "ohh what kind of society are we living in?!"
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I hope you are okay? I only ask straight away because of the black pill references you are making. Is this how you feel?
I know that you don't want to be told that you're "too young" but I honestly do think that at 21 you have so much more important things to look forward in life rather than someone else's opinion of you. I am also 21 and I refuse to change for a man. I have little to no interest in romance, marriage and babies etc., and people think it's a phase. But I think I'm being true to me. I also think you should be true to who you are.
If you are interested in relationships etc., please don't feel the need to change for someone else to like you. I'm sorry to hear that people haven't been nice to you and even bullied you in the past but please don't call yourself such nasty names. There are over 7.8 billion people on the planet and you've only come across a very small number of people. I'm not saying you will meet everyone on the planet but because you're so young, I think you have the rest of your life to meet new, interesting and likeminded people!
Please try not to let other people's horrible opinions define who you are. You also make a good point. Your feelings are valid, regardless of your gender/sex.
You attached a screenshot of a post. Is that a comment you have made on another site? I have attached a link with expert advice on suicidal thoughts. I have only attached this because of some of the comments in the screenshot.
https://www.themix.org.uk/mental-health/suicide/how-do-i-cope-with-suicidal-thoughts-37568.html
I hope you find a way to overcome these feelings. Feel free to post on the discussion boards again. Even if only for a rant.
Your comments on women aside, it sounds like you are really struggling and need help. Do you want to talk more about your current situation and what help you need? We can then point you in the direction of it then.
"I want to start by saying you're not a freak." not my words, I'm only repeating what I've been told. "The one thing I will say is there are a lot of women in this community who have been through experiences just like the ones you describe - chronic loneliness, bullying, manipulation." JFL. If by "chronic loneliness" you mean only getting 30 messages from their orbiters instead of 60, if by "bullying" and "manipulation" you mean getting pumped and dumped by men out of their league. Do you mind if I ask: are you currently getting any support (e.g. counselling)? If you think I'm suicidal, I'm not. So go ahead and ban me guilt free for dropped blackpills. "I also want to say it is incredibly common for people over the age of 20 to not have had sexual or otherwise intimate experiences." simply not true, look up the facts.
@Tee A
"I hope you are okay? I only ask straight away because of the black pill references you are making. Is this how you feel?" yes, for the first time in my life I see the truth and why everyone treated me and other LVMs so harshly. "I honestly do think that at 21 you have so much more important things to look forward in life rather than someone else's opinion of you." don't tell me what I have to look forward to in my life. "I refuse to change for a man." because your a woman, try doing that as a man and see how far you get. "You attached a screenshot of a post. Is that a comment you have made on another site?" no just other BASED individuals. "I have attached a link with expert advice on suicidal thoughts" NOT SUICIDAL. I also know how much you women love to call the cops on LVMs you don't like so please don't do that. I still have time to gymmax even more, career/satusmax, surgerymax and honkpill if all fails.
@Lucy307
"Your comments on women aside" and what would those be? Nothing but hard truths about the 'empathic sex'.
Don't worry guys I'll be going back to my containment board with all the other 'freaks', 'losers', 'incels' and virgins, just wanted to blackpill the MEME mental health support has become. This site just re-enforced that the blackpill is scientific fact so thanks for that.
But I rather think you're not actually here looking for help or advice. You're here to preach.
But then again you know what? I was singled out by my whole hockey academy (50 ish people) because my coach bullied me. I was bullied because I was an easy target - this was after experiencing years of abuse/neglect and was removed by social services.
I literally had NO ONE and was living halfway across the world away from everyone I knew. This happened for a whole year!
Why am I telling you this?? Because I don't hate people. In fact, I moved teams instead of giving up, and that team wasn't perfect - but no one is. That team gave me lots of support and long standing friends and GOOD memories.
I would never have had that if I decided to simply give up and hate everyone. Nobody is perfect and PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES.
You know what? All women are not bad, just because you've had bad experiences, doesn't mean women are bad. Some women are absolutely awful people, so are men. What do men and women have in common? They're HUMANS.
Tbh I don't really care to read or digest the rest of your post but I thought if you can be spoken to without shutting me down then I would share my experience with you.
And I'm sorry if I offend you or anyone but please open your mind and stop coming into people's safe space and trying to put people down and bring negativity.
Whilst I can see why these experiences would have a negative effect on ones life, I also think it's important to not let that control your views on others. It seems like a gross misjudgement to reduce the entire entity of women down to a single negative view.
It's understandable that your experiences may have triggered some emotional pain, and we are here if you would like support with that. You mentioned that it is different for women to reach out than for men which I agree with you on. If you would like to visit an organisation that is aimed at males for mental health support then Campaign Against Living Miserably may be a good resource for you.
I agree with @Anch0r33, you can't let you experiences determine your future, you have to own them!
I'm going to share with you my own experiences but I'm going to put it in a spoiler to avoid this becoming too long.
Now I could take this experience and give a generalised hatred to all males but I haven't because I know that it's not their fault in the slightest, it was just the actions of a few men and my father that mad this happen. In actual fact, I don't even hate my father. He taught me a lot about how not to treat people and he taught me how to look out for others. The experiences have left me with mental illness but this has taught me resilience and determination.
So I ask you, what positives can you pull of out your experience? Focus on those, they will make you much more happier. Trust me.
A life of self pity and hate must be a pretty miserable existence. You won’t find any answers by hanging around in your incel groups however - they’re just circle jerks of nihilism.
People try their best to offer support without being judgemental but when you make sweeping and offensive comments it doesn't help your case. If you're so used to being treated so badly by women trust me this place doesnt tolerat that ish. People here mean well and it could have been a place of safety and acceptance for you, we're not the enemy here.
I do hear you and I understand that your hurt comes from lived experiences, so I really do empathise. But please, don't turn people against you to fuel your agenda.