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Christmas hugs thread (2019)

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  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    And December is here! Hugs to anyone who needs them. 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Just echo’ing what GreenTea has said! 

    Sending hugs to all those who need them, :heart: 


  • Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,194 Part of The Furniture
    I thank you mental Health services for screwing me over one again 😕
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Millie2787 said:
    I thank you mental Health services for screwing me over one again 😕
    Sending hugs to you :heart: 

    We’re here for you :smile: 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Starting to hate christmas my sister is so obsessive with christmas lights. Whic means she moans at me saying she wants lights outside. And to find them. Yet wont look herself and gets me to pay for it. Like i have £50. You have 6,000 and wont even pay me back for some things 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Worried I'll be spending Christmas in hospital because of my breathing. Really really hope this inhaler works 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    edited December 2019
    Shaunie said:
    Starting to hate christmas my sister is so obsessive with christmas lights. Whic means she moans at me saying she wants lights outside. And to find them. Yet wont look herself and gets me to pay for it. Like i have £50. You have 6,000 and wont even pay me back for some things 
    Sending hugs Shaunie, doesn't sound good for you. Could you talk to your sister about how it's making you feel? :heart:

    We're here for you :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    GreenTea said:
    Worried I'll be spending Christmas in hospital because of my breathing. Really really hope this inhaler works 
    Sending hugs :heart:

    Hope you get better soon! :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Deactivated Posts: 496 Listening Ear
    Keep imagining that I'm going to be killed on new years day not neccisary suicide but I keep thinking it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Lubna said:
    Keep imagining that I'm going to be killed on new years day not neccisary suicide but I keep thinking it.
    That sounds really difficult for you Lubna, sending you hugs. We are all here for you if you need to talk about anything :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    And I was actually looking forward to Christmas, now everything has gone wrong and Christmas is ruined 😭 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Christma is just too stressful sometimes
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,104 Legendary Poster
    😭
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    And I was actually looking forward to Christmas, now everything has gone wrong and Christmas is ruined 😭 
    I hope your okay, if you want to talk about anything we are all here for you :heart: sending hugs 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Shaunie said:
    Christma is just too stressful sometimes
    Yeah it is sometimes, do you want to talk about anything? Sending hugs :heart: 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Kasa2103 said:
    😭
    are you okay? Do you want to talk about anything? :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    To scared to even use my inhaler and I need it right now but what if I can't afford it in the future? Feel like I need to restrict using it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    GreenTea said:
    To scared to even use my inhaler and I need it right now but what if I can't afford it in the future? Feel like I need to restrict using it
    Sending hugs :heart: 
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,194 Part of The Furniture
    Feel so so low today I’m Litreally exsaughted from trying so hard and I don’t think I can cope with this all anymore :( 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Christmas shopping is too stressful
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 228 Trailblazer
    edited December 2019
    Millie2787 said:
    Feel so so low today I’m Litreally exsaughted from trying so hard and I don’t think I can cope with this all anymore :( 
    Hey @Millie2787 it sounds like things are really overwhelming for you at the moment which is understandable for this time of year <3  Is there anything that happened that made you feel so low today?

    If you need any extra support, remember you can always chat to The Mix helpline at 0808 808 4994 or Samaritans on 116 123. 
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,194 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    @Past User I’m just so overwhelmed with everything , with life , it’s just all too much to cope with . I just want a break 😐 Caring is coming before my own needs once again becuase I have no choice but to do that
    Post edited by TheMix on
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Deactivated Posts: 496 Listening Ear
    Suicidal ideation is so bad😥
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Train delays because of flooding and I'm absolutely freezing. 

    Hope anyone who travels this Christmas, stays safe ❄️💜
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I have absolutely no idea how we are gonna fit everything in the car 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Lubna said:
    Suicidal ideation is so bad😥
    Hey :heart:

    How are you feeling now? I know you posted this a few days ago now, sending hugs :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    GreenTea said:
    I have absolutely no idea how we are gonna fit everything in the car 
    Did you manage to fit everything in the car? :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Smol Bean Posts: 666 Incredible Poster
    I don’t want to have to visit home this Christmas, all my family do is remind me of everything I’ve ever failed at. But if I don’t go they will just guilt trip me about it for the next few years. :( 
    At least December is the anniversary of me getting my own dog, I’ll always love my fluffy little puppy. :) 
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,104 Legendary Poster
    Feel so traumatised and down from all the severe bullying that I have been through during the term at school. Terrified about going back to school after the holidays. :(
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Ong seriously. My sister has already gone over by £16 for our price for each others christmas presents yet gone into town to ger some more. Which means im gunna have to pay her the money i didnt spend 😭. Thanks for christmas present 👍🏻  Im literally already owe her money so everytime i get paid it will litwrally be going to her or my dad and none for myself for a few months brill. Why does my sister have to say we have to get loads of presents 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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