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Christmas hugs thread

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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 1,979 Postholic
    My parents have decided to spend Christmas together this year and im dreading it, whenever they're together they just argue :bawling:
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    Laine
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 4,861 Supreme Poster
    My parents have decided to spend Christmas together this year and im dreading it, whenever they're together they just argue :bawling:
    Sending hugs :heart: 
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
  • LaineLaine Horse hugger Posts: 1,122 Fanatical Poster
    Sending do good hugs your way @BubblesGoesBoo

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈 


    "So wake me up when it's all over, when I'm wiser and I'm older" ~ Avicii

    "
    All I do is sit and think about you If I choose then I lose.
    Distract my brain from the terrible news
    It's not living if it's not with you" ~ The 1975

    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
  • MegglesMeggles Unicorn. Posts: 1,048 Fanatical Poster
    Hugs to those who need them. Im around if anyone needs to chat
    Laine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    Atleast Christmas is nearly over 🙃
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
    Laine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    edited December 2018
    Just cant handle the big dinners. I feel so guilty and wish I wasn’t so weak. But I feel like need to hid because am so fat now and going to skip meals and feel never leave house
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
    Laine
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 4,861 Supreme Poster
    Sending hugs @Shaunie

    We are here if you want to talk about things :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 4,861 Supreme Poster
    Sending hugs @Shaunie

    We are here if you want to talk about things :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
  • LaineLaine Horse hugger Posts: 1,122 Fanatical Poster
    Sending loads of hugs your way Shaunie ❤

    I hope you find tomorrow okay xo
    Remember you're not weak x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈 


    "So wake me up when it's all over, when I'm wiser and I'm older" ~ Avicii

    "
    All I do is sit and think about you If I choose then I lose.
    Distract my brain from the terrible news
    It's not living if it's not with you" ~ The 1975

    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    Thank yous. <3
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 4,861 Supreme Poster
    hey folks,

    Just wanted to check in with you all to see how you are all feeling today? Remember we are here for you, :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
  • MegglesMeggles Unicorn. Posts: 1,048 Fanatical Poster
    I wish people would be more grateful for gifts around Christmas. All I see is people bragging about their new high end stuff and can't even say thank you. When some families get nothing and still manage to show they are grateful. 
    Millie2787Shaunie
  • Lauren223Lauren223 Posts: 19 Fast Newbie
    Hey everyone,

    Sending everyone big massive hugs today. I know the holidays can be difficult for some, so let's make sure we share extra love and warmth today. I'm giving everyone bear hugs  <3 <3
    kathleen0172ShaunieLaine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    Calories don’t count on Christmas right ? Lol
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    edited December 2018
    And I don’t want to be rude to anyone ofc. As know is true. I’m just saying how I feel But kinda annoying how many times people say how difficult christmas is for a lot. And only emphasise on that. I Know is true and is hard.  It just makes me feel like I should feel guilty if I feel okay today 

    Christmas can be good for some too 
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
  • LaineLaine Horse hugger Posts: 1,122 Fanatical Poster
    Absolutely agree Meggles!  Today I got more than I could have asked for from both my partner and his family.  They could of not got me anything especially bring the outsider but everyone got me at least one and I'm super grateful because they put money into it. Hurts to see people being rotten when so many out there don't get any or even food xo

    @Shaunie I get what you mean but you definitely shouldn't feel guilty feeling Okay or happy and grateful is wonderful!  And if you're Feeling positive that's great to hear :) xo

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈 


    "So wake me up when it's all over, when I'm wiser and I'm older" ~ Avicii

    "
    All I do is sit and think about you If I choose then I lose.
    Distract my brain from the terrible news
    It's not living if it's not with you" ~ The 1975

    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 4,861 Supreme Poster
    sending hugs to those who need them,

    how are peoples days going so far? :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
  • LaineLaine Horse hugger Posts: 1,122 Fanatical Poster
    edited December 2018
    Pretty great thanks banana! Got a little sad as I started missing home while both thinking about having to go home at the same time lol but just enjoying the good moments right now :) got plenty of nice pressies and saw some great people, made up for the gift of an endo flare up for Christmas haha Xo

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈 


    "So wake me up when it's all over, when I'm wiser and I'm older" ~ Avicii

    "
    All I do is sit and think about you If I choose then I lose.
    Distract my brain from the terrible news
    It's not living if it's not with you" ~ The 1975

    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 2,905 Mega Poster
    I don’t deserve the expensive presents I got. Makes me feel bad. Not that i am ungrateful as I really like them & am really grateful people took time & money on me. I Just lack self worth :/
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton 🌸🌸
    kathleen0172Laine
  • LaineLaine Horse hugger Posts: 1,122 Fanatical Poster
     I Get where you're coming from Shaunie it's like I got at least one present off all my Boyfriends family and while I was happy I felt really bad. 
    But in the end I just focused on being grateful. I had a bit of a cry because everyone took the time to get me some things but it was happy because I was included xo

    I'm glad you like them ❤ And it can really help to remember why you deserve them.

    I don't even know you on a personal level but i know You always offer something to others here even during personal difficult times. You're kind and you're doing so well you absolutely deserve it :)

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈 


    "So wake me up when it's all over, when I'm wiser and I'm older" ~ Avicii

    "
    All I do is sit and think about you If I choose then I lose.
    Distract my brain from the terrible news
    It's not living if it's not with you" ~ The 1975

    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
    Shaunie
  • ItaliaItalia Posts: 17 Moderator
    edited December 2018
    This thread is lovely - great shout @*BananaMonkey* on starting it.   

    @Shaunie it sounds like Christmas is particularly hard this year, and that's okay.   You are doing incredibly well by reaching out for support.  Its not always easy.  It looks like there is a lot of love  in this community for you.  
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