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Is it ever OK to have a threesome when you're in a serious relationship?
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It's quite common to fantasise about having a threesome. But is involving someone else in your sexual relationship really a good idea? Is it just a bit of harmless fun? Or the first (or last!) step on a very slippery slope?
Tell us what you think!
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It's also interesting you mention trust @butterfly123 - such an important part if feeling comfortable when you're being intimate with someone, bringing in someone else could perhaps mean you felt less comfortable and safe?
What else do you think might work better if a couple was looking to 'spice things up' @Whowhere?
Exactly. I think even wanting to bring someone else in for something like that would destroy a huge amount of trust and comfort. If that's really a risk a partner would be willing to take then you know your relationship has problems - that's how I'd feel anyway.
I've been that 3rd wheel in someone else's' relationship and it didn't end well for them, I was cool with it and made sure they were at the time (since it was their idea), but they split up 2 weeks after having arguments because I prefered one over the other and insecurities came out. O'well.
Thanks for sharing that, it's interesting to see the difference between the two couples. You say the first couple usually talked openly about it, it made me wonder if the second couple did?
After your experience of being the 3rd wheel, do you think it's made you more or less likely to invite a 3rd wheel into a relationship you're in at some point?