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It's a bit of a dilmena but anyway.
I like this girl alot and she likes me, the thing is she used to really like me but i never knew this and i liked her whenever i didn't know she liked me,this was over a year ago, but now we sort of got talking and stuff and i like her and she likes me, the problem is her brother is my friend and her friend likes me.
is this a problem or am i just thinking too much?
I don't really except any feedback, i just neeed to speak my mind.
I like this girl alot and she likes me, the thing is she used to really like me but i never knew this and i liked her whenever i didn't know she liked me,this was over a year ago, but now we sort of got talking and stuff and i like her and she likes me, the problem is her brother is my friend and her friend likes me.
is this a problem or am i just thinking too much?
I don't really except any feedback, i just neeed to speak my mind.
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Well, looks like you have 2 problems here - 1) your friend/her brother, and 2) competition for your attention.
2) is easy - if you prefer the girl you're talking about, ignore her friend!
1) is slightly harder; maybe you should talk to her brother and explain? If he sees your intentions are honourable and you really do like his sister, instead of a passing passion, then he should be OK about it. If not, you have to ask yourself which is more important - his friendship, or her.
Good luck!
ps welcome! :wave: