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Would someone care to tell me...
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How i can upset someone who i've never had a bad word to say about them.:(
This is really getting to me.
This is really getting to me.
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I am talking about someone from here,, they know who they are. I really hope that they find out that they got it mixed up.
For example, the other night I was talking with someone from work. She was talking about a problematic ex. She said at one point "I don't know if you know, but **** used to hit me?" I said yes, I thought so because of one or two things I'd heard. There was a brief look on her face, a momentary flicker, but I knew that she thought that meant that everybody at work must've been talking and gossiping about her. Doh! All it was, was a case of me picking up on one or two subtle things people had said - an unusual choice of words, or a phrase. I couldn't think of a way to dig myself out of that hole.
Mr_Wobble
Thats the problem i don't know either yet, all i know is someone thinks i don't like them & Tbh it's really bothering me, i am nearly in tears as its so far from the truth its unbeleiveable. i don't give people i don't like the time of day, so why would i bother trying to help when i can?!
Oh fuck it, it just gets worse.:(
I can remember chatting with an ex of mine, via ICQ, that I met online. We'd talk for hours, everything would be fine. Then I'd choose one wrong word, or phrase, and it would then take a couple of hours to repair the "damage" done by one stupid word or remark. Except the annoying thing was that it was in no way intended to insult her.
It's the same with these, and many other, forums. It's how flame wars start, and people start ranting at each other. The same thing happens in chat rooms too. It only takes one person to make a joke that someone else doesn't get, and it all kicks off.
Mr_Wobble
I would never hurt anyone intentionally.:(
Is that how i come accross on this thing? A nasty two faced cow?
No. Not at all. I find it quite obvious even that you are a well intentioned sweet person.
Thanks, although i'm obvoiusly not.:(
A bit "hormonal" at times, which is understandable as you're pregnant, but not nasty.
And when I say "hormonal", I mean you seem to get upset, not angry.
Mr_Wobble
Forget about it, make up with each other and get on with things!
Yes you are right .