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how many people have you kissed?approximately? (also how old are you? because obviously the older you are the more time you've had to smooch!) im 17 and ive kissed about 7 or 8 but people i know have kissed like 50!!
am i the only person that thinks it's disgusting swapping saliva with random people...tsssk you don't know where they've been...urrrrrrrrgh!! every person ive kissed, i've really liked, i don't see the point in kissing someone you don't like....
what is the point--can someone explain to me why they kiss random people in a club or something, if they haven't even talked to them or don't even fancy them? call me a prude but it's totaly beyond me why people do it....
am i the only person that thinks it's disgusting swapping saliva with random people...tsssk you don't know where they've been...urrrrrrrrgh!! every person ive kissed, i've really liked, i don't see the point in kissing someone you don't like....
what is the point--can someone explain to me why they kiss random people in a club or something, if they haven't even talked to them or don't even fancy them? call me a prude but it's totaly beyond me why people do it....
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i don't see the point of kissing random people either - these were all people i was really into, at the time.
i hate that...i went on holiday to newquay a few weeks ago and i was talking to these girls who im relatively friendly with, and they were telling me about how many people they'd pulled the night before....and they were going on about how gross some of them were....errmmmm *why* did they pull them in the first place ???
*utterly confused...*
16 and 4, 2 of which had significant importance, one of which had importance at the time but not now. Not far behind ya
i don't need the ego boost any more though, i have a lovely blokey who gives me all the compliments i need!!
that's bad....trying to stop it tho cos i have a fear of cold-sores
Edited because i'm as tired as feck as i've been up all night *sigh*
Used to have competitions at school. At one party I remember kissing 20 lasses.
A kiss is just a kiss to me and has very little importance in my eyes. Yes it is nice kissing someone who you are in a relationship with but a kiss of a random person is just a kiss - no big deal.
I was a bad girl til I went to uni
before that though, id hardly kissed anyone, i think about 5 at the most:)
:yes: That's exactly how I feel about it.
I'm 18 and I've lost count, it's not that big a deal for me.
A kiss is better if you like the person, my first kiss was a guy i barely knew and wasn't all that attracted to, I wish I'd held on for someone I really liked.
Most people I have talked to, have thought of kissing as a means to an end.. a small stepping stone towards having sex. They say to me "Why are you so worried? A kiss is just a kiss" To me, a kiss isn't just a kiss, isn't a means to an end, but a means to a beginning of something special.
I don't know, maybe I do read into it too much, but I could never kiss anyone who I didn't have some sort of feeling for.
I'm 17 and only ever kissed 3 people.
The first was the worst of them all, and has generally put a negative slant on kissing. My first ever boyfriend ended it with me because of the negativity my brain feels towards a kiss. I just couldn't seem to do it. One day I hope to find someone I can enjoy a kiss with, rather than dread.
Ilora x
1st kiss - an arsehole boy who used me to get to my best mate - was with him for like 6 hours then the day after went onto my best mate.
2nd - Scott.
I dunno why, but some of my best friends have had like 9/10 boys and I have TWO. It's not like I wouldn't like more boyfriends. Christ I would love it. Boys just don't seem to go for me. Maybe something to do with self-esteem.
Same here except I'm 22. I reckon it's prob just under 50ish, but then I have had nearly 9 years of snogging practice so I think it's ok
Im not a "pulling" type girl on a night out really.
New Quay in cornwall or New Quay in Wales???