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How do you bring around the topic of anal sex? its not generally something you can slip into a conversation you know. I'm pretty sure the girlfriend is up for it, i just dont really want to suggest it outright...
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You could be a bit more direct and just ask her one day, but if she's not in the mood to talk about it, then that may be the first and last time you get to mention the subject of anal sex - unless it's something she likes, or wants to try.
Mr_Wobble
But I think its good to discuss stuff you do and dont like-
Like some women like the arses groped some their ass- how exactly she would like you to lick her out or how you would like her to suck you off. Different people like different variations of each- and not just in an Anal sex context but your sex life with her in general-
only way to start Anal I think anyway- is while fingering her, attempt to play with her ass- then slowly just pop one finger in and watch her reaction, play with that ass maybe even lick it then either lube it up or just slide it in! Worth trying if she doesn't like it you can always just stop! just make sre shes comfortable with it! And good fucking to you!
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