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Moral Dilemma
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OK this is the scene . . .
You are in either a long term relationship or married.
Someone you know has expressed an interest in you regarding no strings (and I mean no strings) adult fun. Now don't go saying "aaahhh but what if?" or anything like that cause it won't wash. So the simple question is . . .
Would ya?
Could ya?
Disclaimer: This post has nothing to do with me whatsoever.
edited to say: Hypothetically....if you 100% knew no strings meant no strings!!!!!! and oyu wouldnt get caught!
You are in either a long term relationship or married.
Someone you know has expressed an interest in you regarding no strings (and I mean no strings) adult fun. Now don't go saying "aaahhh but what if?" or anything like that cause it won't wash. So the simple question is . . .
Would ya?
Could ya?
Disclaimer: This post has nothing to do with me whatsoever.
edited to say: Hypothetically....if you 100% knew no strings meant no strings!!!!!! and oyu wouldnt get caught!
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but only cos I'm not very happy in my relationshipat the moment
If I'm in a relationship then I'm in a relationship whether it's been 2 days, 2 months or 2 years.
I never have cheated and hope I never do.
Certainly the last person I'd cheat on is my current g/f, she's just the most fantastic person I've ever known in my life.
And besides, 'no-strings' always leads to more
If there's one thing I really can't tolerate it's cheating. I'm generally quite a laid-back, open-minded person, and tend not to have extremely strong opinions on most things, but no, definitely not. I've seen many of my close friends been hurt in the past by their partners cheating on them. I just don't understand the logic behind it - if you want to be in a relationship with somebody, you have a sense of commitment to them and that includes staying faithful to them.
I don't think I could, especially with someone I didn't know. I couldn't have sex with someone who I hadn't spent time getting to know. I need to be comfortable with someone before I have sex with them, I am quite shy.
lisa
if i was ever tempted, i would think why am i in this relationship
and i couldn't have no strings attached i don't think...
i want to be loved :crying:
here here!...i agree..... never catch me doing something like that..
i have been on the recieving end and had a relationship dissolve because of it and i dont want that to happen to anybody.....
plus i saw what it did to my rents marrige
So if I were married or in a more long-term relationship (this one's nearly a year), then I wouldn't/couldn't do it.
I've been cheated on more than once, and I know how much that hurts, so I wouldn't want to inflict that much pain on someone I love. :no:
Mr_Wobble
I wouldn't do it.
this is the world we inhabit, welcome one and all.