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this has probably been done before but hohum,
someone told me last night he didnt see the point in net relationships,cause there was no physical contact
i personally think they can be stronger in the sense that the communication bond would be so much greater and when there was physical contact itd be oh so much more worth it.
what do you think?
do it or dont do it
someone told me last night he didnt see the point in net relationships,cause there was no physical contact
i personally think they can be stronger in the sense that the communication bond would be so much greater and when there was physical contact itd be oh so much more worth it.
what do you think?
do it or dont do it
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I have been in a net relationship, I met the person once for 10 minutes. My mates all told me he was cheating on me, and I refused to believe them, but it was always there bugging me. Then I started seeing someone else (I was getting very desperate because I would probably never see this boy again for a long time) and I did one of those chain email things where you have to write about who your perfect person is and all that kinda thing, and I put the person I was seeing. I sent it to my whole contact list - including this boy - and got a reply which had 'Christine' all over it. I thought, 'Hey look my mates were right' and I haven't spoken to him since (ok so it was a very long time between the last time I spoke to him and that email but hey).
Internet relationships are stupid, you can't trust the person, especially if they are 17, you are 14 and they live on the other side of the bloody country!!!
Franki :P:P:P
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Have you met yet?
The Silly String...being sensible
I've had one of those, and it nearly worked out.
Mr_Wobble
P.s. Yes I know how foolish I was doing so but hey it all turned out for the best.
Past I've had a couple of online rel's. Some worked and met some just faded away, but I can't see any harm in them if you like the person and believe there could be a future.
They just don't work out , thats my opinion anyways, because you have never touched that person or seen them, so how do you know what u are dealing with! You have to be a very trusting person to have a relationship like that!
My friend has recently flew out to Argentina to go and see his g/f for the first time! i think it is really sweet and i really do hope it works out for him and everything but part of me thinks he is silly for going all that way, but i guess love has got the better of him!
Luv
Charlotte x
He's coming to see me in 3 days.
I can see how ugly/shy people with decent personalities would see the attraction though - you can get to know someone without them seeing you, but it's not my thing at all.
Done it once when I was 16/17 and naive - we didn't actually meet but still keep in contact to this day as mates.
The internet is best used for relationships when you're keeping in touch with the other person, for example I will email my girlfriend while I'm at work, MSN etc.
we never complained about the distance because we new we saw each other when we could
If that's the first time you're meeting him and you're planning on having sexual intercourse I'm worried. But then it's your life so oh well.
One of my ex-friends (I seem to be getting a few of those lol) does the cyber sex thing. She spouts on about vegetables and carrots and planting seeds and stuff to random people she meets in chat rooms. She sent me a lot of her stuff a while ago and it was pathetic. Really and truly pathetic. Stupid schizo cow.
Quite
Pathetic ain't it lol
Does anyone who goes online to cyber actual look for a rel? Not in my experience. Those who cyber are there for a cheap thrill. MNost folk who find rel's online do it through chatting and finding a connection so don't be so judge mental.