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How important is I Love You
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How important do you think telling someone you love them is? and how seriously do you take it when someone tells you?
I find it hard to say even though I feel it very strongly, I think because of the way I was brought up, (no one ever said it to me unitl my current girlfriend although its obvious my family do) so I am the same, I love my girlfriend, but dont say it, as my parents did with eachother and me.
I really want to tell my girlfriend I do, but how much do you think I am hurting her by not telling her? I get the impretion that its alot as she often asks why I dont, (I have before but not very many times) she tells me every day.. but
Is her saying it every day, less or more meaningful? I think I would rather hear it less often, as it seems to have more of an impact when I am actually told. What do you think?
Also, how could I make it easier for me to say it to her? I really really love her so much, and want to tell her and have done, but I want to feel more comfortable doing it, any help?
How important is saying, 'I Love You'?
I find it hard to say even though I feel it very strongly, I think because of the way I was brought up, (no one ever said it to me unitl my current girlfriend although its obvious my family do) so I am the same, I love my girlfriend, but dont say it, as my parents did with eachother and me.
I really want to tell my girlfriend I do, but how much do you think I am hurting her by not telling her? I get the impretion that its alot as she often asks why I dont, (I have before but not very many times) she tells me every day.. but
Is her saying it every day, less or more meaningful? I think I would rather hear it less often, as it seems to have more of an impact when I am actually told. What do you think?
Also, how could I make it easier for me to say it to her? I really really love her so much, and want to tell her and have done, but I want to feel more comfortable doing it, any help?
How important is saying, 'I Love You'?
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which i thought i have before but second thoughts, never have...
Sadly, I think I tend to overuse it on the phone and stuff now, but that doesn't mean it means any less to me. Of course the best time to say it/hear it, is when we're all snuggled up together, feeling oh so close. The best feeling in the world....
yeh, its a phrase wich gets thrown around alot, especially by fellas, to get the girl in the sack.
Peaches
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well said
i think its important for moving your relationship on, once you love one another and you both know it then your as colse as you can get really
Isn't it a great feeling to be loved by someone? I didn't really appreciate it until the other day. It was just like waking up to the reality.